I just would like to know what everyone finds beautiful, see how it compares with my idea of beauty.
2006-10-16 12:35:13 · 20 answers · asked by Ha Ha! 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I like confience and a sense of humor. I love to watch people debate. Nothing is more sexy than being able to have an opinion and defend it. It shows intellegence, articulation, confidence, and poise.
2006-10-16 12:41:35 · update #1
Oh and having nice legs and nice hips wont hurt either.
2006-10-16 12:42:35 · update #2
It's definitely in the eyes and the smile! The way someone carries herself and stands up for what she believes in are all irrisistable characteristics as well - a certain sensuality is revealed and that is super hot.
2006-10-16 13:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nehyers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a 'BBW' lesbian, but I'd personally not want to date a woman who identifies as a BBW admirer, because, to be perfectly honest, the whole BBW thing feels like fetishisation of larger women. I've seen the BBW label applied to women who are certainly large but don't have attractive faces or attractively feminine figures, despite the second 'B' supposedly meaning "beautiful". I can think of things besides my above-average size I'd rather a lover like me for, like my freckles, my geek streak, my dubious artistic abilities. In an attempt to be helpful, I'll give what you might be doing wrong a go. Thin to average women are usually self-conscious about their figures, but have enough self esteem in their physical appearance that if a man says they have a nice figure, they might not believe him, but they'll believe he believes it. A fat woman is not just self-conscious, she's constantly being told her size is a) completely voluntary and b) disgusting. Regardless of how attractively that fat is arranged, a fat woman living in modern society has extreme difficulty believing somebody might find her fat attractive. So, start with physical complements that would be just as true if she were skinny: nice eyes, hair, freckles, whatever. As soon as you know her well enough to complement her on her personality, do so. Don't mention that you admire her figure until she's comfortable with your total admiration, which if she's been very badly broken by anti-fat messages, honestly may not be until you've been married several years. Obviously, if you have sex before she's really comfortable with your admiration, you'll have to mention that you don't find her figure off-putting, but not off-putting and attractive are two very different things.
2016-03-28 12:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is a blend of beauty on the inside and beauty on the outside. Those I find beautiful have a exotic look usually and are slim to curvy. Eyes also do it for me and a great sounding voice whether you are female or male. True beauty is a love of being yourself and wanting good for everyone including yourself. Being confident and not cocky and having generousity of spirit. My beautiful people on t.v are Halle Berry, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Wentoworth Miller, Johnny Depp, Dennis Haysbeth, Shemar Moore, Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt, and the actor that played Samantha's boyfriend on Sex and the City. Beauty is not only what you can see, but it is often what you can because it is deep.
2006-10-16 13:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sense of humor and a positive attitude.
I love to be with people who see the same things as amusing, and who see the world as a beautiful place.
2006-10-16 13:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most beautiful quality of a person is if they are kind in their heart, you can tell if someone has a good heart by looking through their eyes. heheeh
On the physical side, for a woman the most beautiful quality would be their smile, but for men their hands? hehehe :D
2006-10-16 14:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Janji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a woman I find her eyes, especially if they denote a strength of personality and character. In a man, I find beauty in his voice, strong or soft, but again with a strong sense of character and self assurance. To me these are qualities of beauty. Sorry if it's not what you were looking for.
2006-10-16 12:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physically on either, I love eyes. then a smile and a great laugh. If they can hold an intelligent conversation=marriage material.
2006-10-16 12:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by illuminessa.villasenor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A smile gets me over,then love for everything and respect people but still isn't a push-over.
2006-10-16 13:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality and a big heart. Not to mention being able to stand up for yourself.
2006-10-16 13:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me I would have to say their thoughts and then of course the rest. It all falls into place if you both have same Ideas,Goals or Dreams!!
2006-10-16 12:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋