do guys really go for personality alone?

Answer 1

Sorry to say but, No...

A guys gotta be attracted to a female at least a little physically or the relationship will fall apart.

Answer 2

Ah, sorry a BIG NO!!!! If you find one who does then he should be a KEEPER. Actually there are some. I think the sincere ones are more interested in personality. But, beware if a guy uses this as a line. Watch,listen,learn when you meet a guy. My husband seemed like a guy looking for personality when we first met and I did not watch, listen and learn. I had blinders on. He was very good at listening and he learned exactly what to say and what not to say to me, so sweet easy going. WELL it took a long time for the real guy he was to come out, like after we were married and I made some mistakes. The easy going sweetheart I thought he was BLASTED me with everything he didn't like, kept it inside til he got angry. Watch out for anyone who is a people pleas-er,could be a sign of a passive/aggressive personality.Don't get me wrong women/girls can be just as likely to do this too. However usually for different reasons. We've gotten passed all that thank God.

Answer 3

I would love to say yes to this question but we know the answer is no (depending on there age). When u think about it when ur out at a bar or club u turn and see an attractive person that is what first catches ur eye. Then the convo starts and then u see if there is compatiablity. Usually the personality will be more of an issue if sex isn't rushed into.Because it could be based on sex and the personality get lost along the way. Though a man likes to have a girl he can chill with and has stuff in common with so they do eventually want to get to know that personality. Bring it into play before sex though, is my only advice. Happy hunting :)

Answer 4

Women do not so why would they?

As human beings, men especially are visual creatures. As far as first impressions go, the outer-you always gets noticed first. I am not saying that unattractive people cannot find love but it is usually after they are given the chance to show off their charm, smarts, humor, and wit.

Even if you are unattractive or plain in appearance, you can still present yourself on the outside in a way that makes you beautiful by working out, dressing well, having good posture, and eluding confidence.

It is just a sad fact that in the dating scene while looking for a potential mate men and women alike will let a good book get dusty just because we didn't like the cover.

Answer 5

No.
Personality is important, but you look for different things;
Some like big boobs, others not, legs, bums ... you know what I say.

But, with the legs, personality goes. Guys like to talk, have fun and feel at ease.
They also like to be controlled, but very subtle. Then off course there is the background factor: Where is he coming from?

Women don't listen to this. Most men are what they learned at home. Abusers will not easily change.

Why I say: If women choose better boyfriends and husbands, we will have less divorces in life!

But they say: He will cahnge. I love him...
Please, work harder in relations and find the one that don't look like a prince, but will respect you and be fun.

Men only want to feel appretiated. Maybe not the abswer to your question, but you must understand more about why things go wrong.
We like a personality, but our pants are sometimes confusing. Sex take love away from our brains and then we don't see the personality. Same with women.
We sometimes give our bodies to quick to a relationship and then the personality factor goes down the drain.

Answer 6

Depends on the guy. For me, personality is MUCH more important than physical appearance. I'll tell you why:

First, let's put it in perspective ... I'm middle aged (40) ... and your prioritites change with time.
Second, physical appearance will change with the years, but personality will stay fairly constant (barring unforseen trauma).
Third, often, women with knockout looks can become conceited, and feel superior to others - while many attractive, but less flashy women are content to search out the best in OTHERS.

One man's opinion.

Answer 7

Only if he is blind, same for women. Initially all human beings, and all other mating creatures, instinctively sum up weather or not another is going to be a good choice for procreation. In females breasts for nurturing offspring, good shape, no deformities, all around good genetics. In males musculature, to indicate they will be a good provider, over all health etc. Unfortunately our survival instincts have pre programmed us to an extent to be attracted to alphas the great thing about being human is making the choice to ignore base instincts and delve deeper into ones psyche. The greatest thing about having cognitive self awareness is you can choose to be attracted to traits not tangable by less evolved creatures. The downside, outside forces such as relationships with parents early romantic encounters , can heavily and at times adversely affect the traits one is attracted to. "Love, its a b@%&h no."

Answer 8

Guys are human, they go for personality and physical attributes.
Just like when I was single I would be attracted to a man for the whole package. They are like that too but some are rogues and are only interested in the physical. When they are looking to marry though it is everything combined.

Answer 9

People are attracted to the unique combination of traits in others. Looks, personality and education all play a part.

Answer 10

No--nobody does. People who claim looks don't matter are lying. It's just that what each person finds appealing differs from person to person. Personality is important, but so is sense of humor, shared goals, lifestyle, ambition, and lots more...