2006-10-16 12:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by k 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
neither... you want some one to love you for you and if they don't like you for who you are you shouldn't wanna be with them either... I was skinny in school a cheer leader and all every one liked me i got outta school got sick and gained some weight no one that use to like me wanted to go out with me... so i finally found a guy who loves me for me not cause I'm skinny or pretty but for me! You will get the same!
2006-10-16 12:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by randaroo87 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, we all want guys to notice us, we all want to be loved and try to find ways to acheive that.
But being yourself and loving yourself..is the first step. Guys can't validate us...only we can.
Now, I wish I could say that looks, weight...all the other wrappings don't matter. But if you saw a pile of presents, don't you alway reach for the most appealing one? So we need to let guys notice us...then we can reel them in with our inner beauty.
If wearing a little makeup or wearing a certain look...or dropping a couple of pounds will make you feel more confident to go get your man....then do so. But be smart...and remember its for you...for your confidence...not some stupid boy.
2006-10-16 12:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this is a true saying-you are beautiful just the way you are! It doesn't matter if you are thick or thin.My best friend since childhood has always been big but this is how she feels-she feels that she is a big beautiful curvy woman and she's right.She said her curves make her who she is along with her storming beautiful personality.So don't listen to anybody who tells you different.You are beautiful no matter what shape size or color.Just be yourself.Have a big personality and carry yourself good and no one can stand in your way!
2006-10-16 12:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by charming_phoebe3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, guys love any girl who has the attitude of a First Lady. So just show these guys that your not impressed by those chicks who only have great hair and slender bodies. They need to bring more to the plate than that!!!!!!
2006-10-16 12:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think you need to lose weight? if so, go for it, but try to get a friend to do this with you. it feels better when you have somebody to go through this process with. if not, be confident. just don't wear revealing clothes. some guys think its cheap. good luck!
2006-10-16 12:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are worthless bad news. I would go on with your life not worring about them and the right ones will come to you with no problems attached/
focus on being happy by yourself. It never fails to attract the guys
2006-10-16 12:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, guys are not that worth it that you have to change being you stay the way you are and the right guy will come along
2006-10-16 12:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by poohbear33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋