HELP!!!!!!!!!! What is it to be goth and know how to do it right?

Question

like can i be goth with out being a freek ect.

Answer 1

You know you're doing it right if you don't have to ask if you're doing it right. Being goth is not an act, its how some people are. Don't try and be something you're not. Posers are the biggest freaks of all. But as far as what goths really are. . .

Being goth has nothing to do with what clothes you wear or music you listen to, it is a way of thinking and seeing the world. The clothes that goths wear and the music that goths listen to is just a reflection of that mindset. Goths see that there is extreme pain and evil in the world, along with the good. Instead of condemning it or ignoring it, goths accept these things as a part of life and try and enjoy the good along with the bad, since they can't stop the bad from happening. They are not obsessed with death, they just accept it as an inevitability. They do not try and cause more pain in their (or anybody else's) lives, since there is plenty to start with. Goths tend to be kind, intelligent, non-violent, emotional, and artistic.

Answer 2

Sounds like you're probably just interested in the look, not the music, history, mindset, or community. Try goth.net and learn more about it.

Answer 3

it sounds like u like the looks but u never learned about it .my friend wanted to be goth so i let her, but then people started to start juding her by her looks.and she became very sad.the only friend she had was me. people started to talk behind our baks saying mean things about me and my friend. so i whould think before u do it think about it first.read about it learn about it. ask somebody that is goth and ask then is it fun?im not saying not to do it but this is u and u should do wat u want to do. Plus thanks for the advice for me.

Hope This Helps!! :D

Answer 4

yes talk to him