So its this guy in world history I think he may like me i like him alot.Sometimes we look at eachother you know stare.Then sometimes i ketch him looking and i stare back but sometimes I get nervouse and look away and sometimes he does to.One time i smiled and he smiled back how should i approach him without putting myself out because im in the closet and if he is gay or bi he is 2 what should i do i really like him and i think he likes me and i dont want to pass this up.
2006-10-16 11:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i have to say that this is kind of awkward, i am in the same situation witha guy in my history class. our stories match perfetly, how weird would it be if we were both staring at eachother, what grade are you in and what state do you live in (ps. i really am not trying to be creepy and stalkerish!)
2006-10-16 14:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Narry 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know, that happened to me in Psychology class... I had this haaaawt guy who used to do the same....well, I was kinda freaked out cuz i rly wanted him, so I simply approached him as a friend (PS talk to him RIGHT AFTER u catch him staring....he'll get the connection). And by approached him as a friend I mean running in the hallway and spilling coffee all over him >.<" But yeah, gave him an excuse to take off the shirt ^.^ We kinda were friends and then well eventually after we got to rly trust each other, we just found out that neither of us was str8 and it was pretty much "Wanna go out sometime?"
We're still a pair...3rd year anniversary comin up ^.^
2006-10-17 09:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Azhdeha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you; I would approach him first as a friend. Develop some type of repore with him first to establish trust. More than likely you both share in common more than just looking at each other. He's just as nervous as you are, and possibly shy. Just take a deep breath and start talking with him.
2006-10-16 11:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not gay but I know some-one who is in a similar situation. Why dont you send him a note. Tell him you a guy and that you like him. You are scared to talk to him face to face incase he is not gay. Then if he is interested perhaps he could give you a sign. Something subtle, ask him to wear a color or something.
2006-10-16 13:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brett S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to the guy. get a rainbow badge, and that could be a good starting point for you both. I prefer a direct approach though
2006-10-16 12:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh what a cracker! Some dim-wit has just said "write him a note"! Are you serious? Have you read the above??
2006-10-17 05:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"get yours, i'm down with the rainbow"
seriously though, dont let the opportinity pass you by if you guys could really hit it off
2006-10-16 11:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You gotta get talking to this guy!!
Drop a hint of some sort....ask him about his underwear, that should make it obvious, lol....
Good luck
2006-10-17 07:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Glenn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just introduce yourself. Take it from there.
2006-10-16 11:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him
say hello
see what's what
2006-10-17 09:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by wwJad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋