2006-10-16 10:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by factual_chaos 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Dude... if you need to ask that, it probably means you're not prepared.
Usually these will unravel themselves in time but since your lady is pushing a deadline, maybe the 2 of you should talk & reconsider.
The reason could be you're not ready for the next step in your future, other issues are making marriage impossible i.e. financial, timing, etc.
Whatever the matter is, think it through & talk it over. If it's not meant to be, then it's time to move along.
Best of Luck.
2006-10-16 15:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 15:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee never did officially 'ask' me. I despise big phony planned out proposals when the woman already knows the question is coming, but just doesn't know when. We had talked about getting married practically since we met, and now that the time is right we're just going to do it!
I can't tell from your question whether the marriage is a foregone conclusion, or maybe you're still pondering. If you aren't sure you want to do it, then definitely don't!
2006-10-16 12:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by jenh42002 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you want to marry her. If not be honest with her, and tell what you really want. If you are never going to marry her, then it is the only fair thing to let her know, so she can have her life, to be with you, or to go on her way. Be honest with her. For her sake and yours, so both of you can be happy.
Good luck
2006-10-16 10:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra Leone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't ask her if I wasn't ready. Marriage is a big deal so please don't ask her just because she is bugging you about it. The best time is when your ready not a minute before or a minute after. Maybe you could talk to her and ask her to stop asking you about it if it is bothering you or putting pressure on you.
2006-10-16 14:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her pressure you if its something you don't want to do. But if you never plan on asking her, stop wasting both of your lives. If she ever wants children, she has got to get started right away!
2006-10-16 16:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Simone E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry her, any continued delay in response / commitment is rude and insulting to her...
If you do not want to marry her, tell her and let her move on and find a man who does want to marry her...
2006-10-16 11:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Chuck! There's something she's not telling you. Insist that she does or you'll never ask her!
2006-10-16 10:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't love her enough to be with her forever, than why be with her at all?
2006-10-16 12:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by how_truth_hurts 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋