ok so there’s this person in my college and at first i thought it was a girl, didn’t think otherwise for a second,. then i found out that its name is jack and likes to be referred to as jack. But this could be short for Jacqueline or some other femine name, and also in lesson (im told) the teacher referred to him/her as a she and jack said something like hey im a guy and you called me a she or something like that and all the teachers refer to this person as a guy. so now im generally baffled as to the gender of this person because it really looks like a girl and sounds like a girl, and its my mission to find out. so then to the actual question how can i find out indefinitely the sex of this person without actually asking him/her straight up and offending them or alternatively resulting to stealing there clothes. so can anyone come up with a perfect way of finding out with out offending them or actually asking them. if i offended anyone by referring to this person as it, then good.
2006-10-16 10:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by anakissm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this person isnt my friend. its just a sorta of person one of my friends hangs round with in college because theres no1 else to hanground with
2006-10-16 11:20:02 · update #1
and there neither femine or masculine in personality so... its very hard to decide it has neck length hair but so do alot of guys in my college (including me lon hair roxorz) so i cant tell, and im told it never goes to the toilet, i might have to resort to some sort of laxitives :)
2006-10-16 11:22:01 · update #2
ask who is is her/his favourite celebrity!! u will not jack's sex, but at least u will know if she/he likes girls or boys!
my favourite "celelbrity" is a guy. so i dont think that will determine wheter they like boys or girls(unless im unconsiously gay)
2006-10-16 11:26:11 · update #3
Buy them a few drinks and see which toilet they go into?
2006-10-16 10:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by kirun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know after reading your question i am confused as to WHY you NEED to know this persons sexuality... its obvious that you cant tell and this is killing you right!!! if you dont have the b*lls to find out by asking the person direct why resort to other means... its just plain childish...
I can understand if you actually fancy this person (and you'd be gutted if its a bloke because in effect that would make you gay right... no actually it wouldnt but hey anyway) but as the only contact you have is 'its' a friend of a friend then its non of your D A M business....
Suggestion... suck up your b*lls and go ask directly!!! if it is a bloke and you get a smack... good... if its a girl and you get a smack... guess what!!!! good...
2006-10-17 11:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I came up with a perfect one just now! I hope she or he doesn't find this offensive, but offer to go to the mall with Jack and ask him or her what store she wants to look in. Then go with her to that store and see which aisle she goes in, the gals or the guys. Also, buy lots of water and liquid foods at the food court, and when Jack protests that she/he's got to go, say that so do you, and follow Jack into the bathroom. Of course, if it is the men's room then you do not have to, you will just know anyways that Jack is a...guy!
2006-10-16 17:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by sPrInG LiLY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to go swimming with a group of friends and invite him / her too !! The you will definatly know !! Some people are saying they don't know why you need to know but i understand that it can be very weird !!! not knowing the sex of a person especially at school !! This happenned to me at school !! This person had long hair in plats , i thought it was called amy and then it had a very feminine figure !! We went swimming and to my shoke it went into the boys toilet !!! and wore swimming shorts !!
2006-10-17 13:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by La parisienne ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask what everyone else thinks! As pointed out by someone else guys have an Adam's Apple in their throat.
2006-10-17 09:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have an adam's apple. Plan B ask if he/she puts the toilet seat back down... lol
2006-10-16 17:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well plan an night out and invite ur friends.if u dnt knw if this person is a he/she u could invite both men and women cause u dnt want to invite this person on a lads night out and it turns out to be a chick now do u
2006-10-16 21:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at all the asnwers before i answered. I think you best bet is to just ask this person, they will respect you more for asking them face to face
2006-10-16 18:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go swimming with them and see what sort of swimmers there wearing that way u can have fun and know what sex ur friend is
2006-10-16 17:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by wolfmother_rock_29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask who is is her/his favourite celebrity!! u will not jack's sex, but at least u will know if she/he likes girls or boys!
2006-10-16 17:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ingrid S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋