I'm afriad to start experimenting with girls I want to but I'm afriad that my friends and family will find out and I'll get in troble.
2006-10-16 10:03:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
But you're not afraid to speak out about this with strangers?
2006-10-16 10:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mont B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, remember that they're human beings just like you, with their own wants and needs. Given the culture in which you appear to have been raised, it's understandable that you have to be very, very circumspect. You'd probably be far better off waiting until you're an independent adult living on your own to start investigating same-sex relationships. As you know, some folks' reactions can be exceptionally violent. And I'm also sure you know how your family and close associates feel about the topic. Consider whether you want to remain safely in the closet forever or whether immigration might be an appropriate move. You're simply not likely to see a major change in their attitudes during your lifetime. Good luck - that's gotta be a very difficult thing to contemplate.
2006-10-16 10:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to do it. It is part of discovering of who you are. I have been through that very thought. I know that my family found out through other people because I couldn't tell them face to face.
In all honesty you need to be upfront with them. It may be harder but it will be easier for them to respect you in the long run. If you get in trouble there are always groups out there that can help you.
2006-10-16 12:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let them find out...you won't get "in trouble" they just might think differently of you. And even if they did, if they are true friends, and if your family loves you, it shouldn't matter what you choose to do with your life. If this is something you really want to do, then do it! No harm in experimenting! :)
2006-10-16 10:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and only you can know if your gay or not. There's only one way of finding out if you want to be with a woman or not. Don't live in the closet.....that's not a life.
2006-10-16 10:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, i have done it, its really no big deal. no body has found out, just a ton of people suspect it and the thing is they know who i have done it with... my best friend. i dont feel any different about it, and no body really looks at me differently. its really not a big deal. if you want to do it then do it, if you wanna wait then wait. if you want to know more of if you just want to talk.. please email me:
megz_meggziememe_690@yahoo.ca
2006-10-16 10:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it!!!! Its no fun if your worried anyway. When you feel comfortable and not like a sinful whatever, you'll do it and it will be good, or bad, or weirde, or ....
2006-10-16 10:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18,, go for it,, you may not regret it.
Under 18,, ummm grow up first.
2006-10-16 10:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by landerscott 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you gotta keep that stuff on the low. dont let no one find out and have fun but stay safe
2006-10-16 10:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do things which you can handle, if you can't handle the trouble part of it, then don't do it and do not get into trouble at all
2006-10-16 10:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋