i met this girl on the net we talk a lot and i would want to be with her should i make the move she lives on the other side of the country she likes me back
2006-10-16 09:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by c.j t 1 in Travel ➔ Other - Destinations
NO!
Would you buy a pair of pants unseen?
Then why would you just up and move away to be with a woman you have never actually met? For that matter, why would she? Despite your strong assertions, you do not know this girl, nor does she know you. You are both infatuated with each other's ideas of what you both are like.
Unfortunately, I have had a large number of friends who "met" somebody online and then went out to "meet" with that person. It never, repeat, NEVER works out the way you both think.
Forget those dumb stories of how the Internet is a source for true love. In over 99.99999% of the cases, it isn't!
Now, for the good news. You are certainly well within your powers to meet with her for coffee. If she lives on the other side of the country, perhaps you could meet somewhere in the middle. Keep things as open and non-commital as possible - but DO NOT just pull up stakes and skitter away.
2006-10-16 10:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you work on visiting each other once in a while and continuing your long distance relationship. It is amazing to me how you can seem to connect so well over the net/telephone, but when you meet in person it just doesn't gel. You wouldn't want to uproot your whole life for a woman who is not "Ms. Right." Take it one step at a time.... Meet in Kansas or something!
2006-10-16 15:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by tallnfriendlyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, She could be a man for all you know. She could be dating other people. Obviously if she's interested in someone in another country, there's gotta be a reason why she can't get anyone in her own region. She could have some kind of STD or something. You never know these things. I hope I helped. I really think you should take my answer into consideration. Thanks
P.S. I'm only trying to help.
I'd really appreciate it if you would choose my answer as "best answer" Thank you.
2006-10-16 10:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by heather_angelle143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace your physique of concepts with your dad. tutor him some adjustments and enable him be attentive to which you relatively want to return decrease back homestead. meanwhile shop up a correspondence with the lady via telephone, text textile, email. quarter-hour away isn't that a procedures and surely you would be occurring your dads for visits a minimum of and you will see her then although if its purely for a rapid time. Getting alongside with your dad and mom (dad) will make existence lots extra handy so get inclusive of him and attempt to return to a pair compromises. i'm effective it wasn't ordinary on your dad to deliver you on your grandparents, even nevertheless you won't see it good now. good success! ladies come and pass yet relatives is for ever!!
2016-12-16 08:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by nichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 get about it! Distance will not make the heart grow fonder if this is a new relationship. It will not withstand the distance.
2006-10-16 13:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by njsueb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go for it if your heart says so. Have a friend come along too for the first time if you dont feel safe about it and meet in a pubic place too.
Dont rush it.
2006-10-17 01:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it if she thinks it is a good idea go for it. Anything for love
2006-10-16 09:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋