I am straight. I never thought about being with another dude until now. I'm confused. We r both in our 20's, have a lot in common, I consider him a brother. Something has been off lately. He started making joking references to us being together, and since I don't get offended easily, I go along with it and 2 my surprise, the jokes are going further now. He gropes my body n I laugh because it's a joke, but now I'm not so sure. We go drinking n instead of going our seperate ways home, we go back to my place. We mock flirt the whole ride then we sleep in my bed and we cuddle, no kissing, no sex, just cuddling. AND I LET HIM? What's wrong w/ me? The other day I woke up "Excited" and when I tried to get off the bed he told me he wanted 2 see. Now I'm messed up. I won't even get into the wrestling incident. Is he really into me? Am I taking it the wrong way? He is always asserting his heterosexuality, and is with very pretty girls. We even said the "L" word to each other in bed. Help Me....
2006-10-16 09:34:47 · 9 answers · asked by ConfusedGuyNYC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yep. He's into you. Get your man groove on. Be gay. Don't fight it. I don't agree with the gay lifestyle, but I think everyone has a right to be happy. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 09:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really seems like you're both into each other. Why don't you get over the whole "I can't be gay!" thing. Your feelings reveal the true way you fell about him. If you didn't like where this was going, you would have stopped it a long time ago.
2006-10-16 09:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you need to talk to each other. See if there are real feelings there or if this is just two guys being curious. But please talk to each other before something happens that you may not be ready for.
2006-10-16 09:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm i could attempt to speak to him with an ultimatom when you consider that that's affecting ya dating. by way of fact at the start he isn't contributing the two in despite component of the dating. A dating is build on giving and compermising to a minimum of one yet another to ascertain that a healthful dating. listed under are the matters. it sort of feels he's extremely selfish when you consider which you enable him to be that thank you to an volume. Ya had this conversations in the previous and apprently it hasn't paintings by way of fact he forgets and you enable him to proceed on with this. So according to probability you prefer to contemplate is protecting out intercourse, consult with him in a pressing and extreme tone and say to him this may be a extensive subject by way of fact i've got faith your not contributing to my desires and its affecting the dating by way of fact my prefer and hapiness at the instant are not being met and that i'm consistently offering you with your desires. A dating is 50/50 and you ought to be extra vocal approximately it and extra extreme approximately this project for him in case you prefer this dating to final. once you consult with him see in case you may communicate with regard to the basis of the project.Like do you have a topic giving oral intercourse. Why do you have a topic giving oral/anal intercourse? Then see if ya could desire to ascertain a intercourse therapist or some thing. If he in basic terms would not prefer to do it then i could pondering ending the dating some thing to an volume of(If this keeps to take place then i think of we will not stay jointly by way of fact i've got faith that my desires are not being met and in case you like me such as you're saying you do you will not be selfish in that experience.) desire this enables.
2016-10-16 06:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys are perfect for each other. Get over your taboos and just be together...
2006-10-18 19:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.g0y.org
Read this. It is a LOT of reading but every interesting.
2006-10-16 09:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT HANG AROUND WITH THIS JERK.
WHEN TWO GUYS GET TOGETHER THIS COULD LEAD TO AIDS.
FIND A GIRL THEY ARE MUCH BETTER
2006-10-16 09:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is gay. Stay away from him
2006-10-16 09:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,you are about to take it up the A*S*S Ky baby
2006-10-16 09:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋