He goes to a professional Salon to have his hair cut, he sees this woman every 3 weeks; they talk about general topics not personal things, according to both when asked. I found receipts and gifts (at different times of the year) for her daughter, worth hundreds of dollars. He does not know this little girl and has only seen the pics on her grooming station . He just spent $260 on NFL tickets to take her and her husband to a game, he has also given her NFL tickets in the past worth a lot of money. He has been buying this little girl gifts since she was born and is now 6.....and they've never met. Our own daughter didn't get a gift from him at X-mas last year but this little girl did worth hundreds. When it comes time to do repairs around our home he complains but when this woman needed help opening up her new salon, he was there with tools in hand. He will take time off work to do for her and her daughter but tells me too bad. Is this just ME or is something else going on?
2006-10-16 09:33:43 · 18 answers · asked by BrnEyez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This all took place while we were still married and living together. It was uncovered last year when I found one gift at X-mas tim and found the receipts while moving out. He even had our daughter wrap the little girls X-mas gift, which was personalized. Our daughter came to me and asked what was going on and who this little girl was? Our daughter is 15. To make matters worse, he borrowed my vehicle to take this woman and her husband to the football game. Telling me he needed the room because the guys he was taking were pretty "big" guys. This woman's husband is 5'8" 160lbs. soaking wet. I was never asked to go to the game, it was just them.
2006-10-16 09:58:56 · update #1
Listen to your gutt. It's always right. Being that you're even questioning it--leads me to a YES answer.
2006-10-16 09:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I would worry about is the fact that he didn't buy his own daughter a gift.
What he does for other people isn't your business anymore and if the woman's husband is involved then I don't see a problem.
He obviously doesn't like you but he shouldn't take that out on his daughter. It's sad but there really isn't anything you can do about it other than express your concerns for your daughter to him but your not doing yourself any favors by comparing how he treats his daughter to how he treats this other girl. Simply because it isn't your concern anymore.
Your post is a little confusing because you call him the ex but refer to him as being in the home...."When it comes time to do repairs around our home he complains"
If this was going on while you were married then you definately have a right to feel upset but now that you are divorced it is not your concern and you would be better off to forget about it.
If he has that much money to throw around you might consider taking him to court for more child support.
There probably is something else going on but why be concerned about it now. He is your ex. Unfortunately your daughter is being hurt by this as well but I just don't see anything you can do about it.
2006-10-16 16:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this little girl he gives gifts too, is his daughter.
2006-10-16 17:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are not together...does it really matter at this point...but to answer your question...yes it sounds very "suspect"....you may have to explain to your daughter the misunderstanding without dogging out the guy
2006-10-16 17:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two things for absolute certain:
1. They are, always were, always will be doing the horizontal bop.
2. The little Sweetie is his (and he knows it).
Sorry Sweetz !!
2006-10-16 16:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geezzzzzzz it kills me sitting here reading this.......just short of bringing this women home and having sex with her while your watching, what dont you understand here? he's sleeping with this hoe! i'de be making some serious changes as far as you and he go. i mean there is no you and him.period. girl if your not taking care of him, you need to find love elsewhere. it sounds like he done has i mean if your built nice do you wear thongs? lacy panties,sexy bras? if not maybe you need a REAL man who would like you for you. i'de be setting his lame a-- down and setting some new guide rules. but it already sounds to me like its to late. find a REAL MAN hun. let me know how it goes
2006-10-16 17:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this little girl may be his daughter!
2006-10-16 16:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this little girl his or not? She is taking him for a fool. SHE'S playing him...and the dummy thinks he's all that and a bag of chips...tell him to get out...let's see if his hairdresser will take him in...BET NOT!!!
2006-10-16 16:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheatin and are you sue the little girl isn't his that he is buying the gifts for?
2006-10-16 16:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him and tell him this doesnt pass muster and to explain his actions especially when his own family doesnt rate so high
2006-10-16 16:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋