found out im pregnant my kids r all 4 it went 4 scan today at least only 1 baby this time, ive been told im daft if i carry on with it, im confused at times im sure i will cope does anyone have advice 4 me who thinks im daft 2? it wasnt planned i have,nt the heart i will get sterelized straight after.
2006-10-16 09:22:33 · 17 answers · asked by HEATHER L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hello and welcome to MY world! I too have twin boys 15, an 8 year old and 7 year old daughter, and a 2 year old son (my surprise). I did not plan my last one either (at the age of 32) but I wouldn't change it now for anything in this world. I was very scared, nervous, and somewhat unhappy when I found out I was expecting baby number 5. Worrying about everything.Am I healthy enough, at this age to carry another child? Do I really want to do this AGAIN? What will other people think about me? Can I afford to raise another one? But take it from me, he was truly a gift that I wouldn't change. His brothers and sisters are more protective of him than I am. The age differences between them is wonderful. He has taught the twins why NOT to rush into adulthood and taught the girls what it's like to be a mommy.But I didn't want to take any chances after he was born, I told my doctor at my first well check I wanted my tubes tied and reminded him at EVERY appointment there after (in case he forgot)LOL:) I think you are blessed too, it was obviously meant to be. Just take the good with the bad and except what's given to you. The minute you see the baby, you'll forget everything else. My guess is this is your little girl:)
2006-10-16 09:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Regina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that anyone would say you are daft. You are still young enough to have a baby. What does it matter if your older two are 20 and 17 - it looks to me as this was meant to be. And, speaking as a mother of 3 boys (including twins) you might get a little girl, although I am sure this is not the most important thing to you. Also, as you know having had twins, one baby is an absolute doddle compared to two. Relax, enjoy and best of luck with your pregnancy.
2006-10-16 09:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not daft at all its up to you what you do i think its great, i have 2 older boys age 12 and 10 and at 33 i found myself expecting again like you not planned this time it was a girl, my sister is 39 and she has 2 older children and 2 little ones age 2 and 9 months. the main thing is, is that the baby has loving parents and family to come into the world to.
best wishes on your pregnancy, and do let us know when the expected date is.
Margie x
2006-10-17 03:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by margie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. Isabella Emily. 2. Jacob Ethan. 3. Alexander Anthony Tyler. 4. St. Louis, Missouri. 5. Ethan Robert, Patrick Ryan, and Elizabeth Ann Kristen. 6. Nelly Heather. 7. Nike financial company and Swiss Loaf. 8. Abraham Zachary and Marie Sophia.
2016-10-02 08:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your daft. these things happen. some things go to plan some dont. my mum had me at 43 (my age now) and so i lost her when i was 21 - she had me so late in lfie so i planned that i would have four children before i was 30. well i had all my three boys before i was 30 so that went to plan - i asked my hubby to get sterilised after third boy cos i had terrible morning sickness with all of them and couldnt take it again. what im trying to say to u is that the plan is not to have a plan. be happy - dont conform do what u want - have this baby and then as u say get sterilised after. its nice to have a big family. good luck and u r not daft u r just feelng a little insecure it happens to us all.
2006-10-16 09:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by shariwharton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not daft......its your decision along with the support of your family, there maybe some increased risks with having a baby at aslightly older age, but it is actually becoming more the norm to have babies later in life...Good luck....ooohh yesss of course you will cope, if you can manage twins, one baby will be easy!!!!
2006-10-16 09:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by crissylizb06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are the only person who can answer this u have to follow ur heart if u want to keep it then u should if u think its a bad idea then dont it has to be ur decision as u have two grown children ur not gonna be on ur own i was 17 when my mum had my sis and i helped her out as much as i could cos she didnt no she was pregnant till she was 6 months gone so she had no choice ..yes it will be hard but do what u want dont listen to anyone else
2006-10-16 09:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by carleighnaghten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not daft. There is an increased chance of baby having Down's Syndrome, but if your kids and husband and you of couse are for it, there is absolutely not reason you shouldn't have this baby. It doensn't matter what other people think.
2006-10-16 09:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by bookworm_382 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really annoying when other people start offering their opinions on what is a very personal decision !
If you're happy to go ahead with the pregnancy, and you have the support of your family then why the hell shouldn't you go ahead with it. By the sounds of things you have some very supportive sons !
Good luck with everything.
2006-10-17 00:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Gail H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 26 with 4 children,my daughters are aged 11 and 4,my sons are aged 6 and 8mths,and i cope,and i'm sure you will too.ignore other peoples comments,you know your own mind.,personally i dont think you're daft,i think you've been blessed,it was meant to be.
2006-10-16 12:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by stokies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋