my neighbor 25 y woman she married 1y ago and her husband youger than me 5y
i consider him cute may more handsome than me but . 1 month ago she start caring very deeply for me.
.i thought she just agood woman who care of her neighbors.but then .she always looking to start up a conversation with me .
she talking to me about her husband mistakes or he hvnt sexual attraction . does she cheater? should i be worried?
i hv to respect his feelings too .what will happen if he know that
2006-10-16 09:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by Sami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first piece of advice: ignore the people who are giving you a hard time for your english, I think that it's admirable that you've got the courage to ask such a question.
Secondly, it may be that your neighbor is simply trying to find someone to speak to about her marital problems. If you are worried that she's trying to cheat on her husband with you, you need to make the moral decision to either accept her advances or to tell her that you are uncomfortable with the situation and you would prefer if she didn't speak to you about things like that. If she doesn't take the hint, you should consider speaking to her husband about what she's saying to you if you trust him not to be abusive or hurtful towards her. If you're afraid for her safety should her behavior be made public, you may want to privately tell her that you aren't interested in her and that you want what's best for her -- recommend she seek help from a professional, and not a neighbor. This may upset you, but if you respect her husband like you say that you do, it's the best move for you to make.
2006-10-16 09:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew Jesse Brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is having some issues with her marriage and looking for an easy out and does not care who she going to hurt in the process. You. So you should tell her flat out and point blank if she needs a friend that fine but anything else is not prper and you dont want nothing to do with that. You need to set boundries up so you dont get invloved with this women and have her husband on your behind remember you are neighbors and you have to live there or find some place else to live if anything happens are you ready to do that Good Luck
2006-10-16 16:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way too immature to be hooking up with a 25 year old married woman. From your question you sound like your 8.
2006-10-16 16:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she wants to cheat with u. Try to stay away from her because if her husband finds out, u never know what he'll do.
2006-10-16 16:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very dangerous liason and you could cause their marriage to rupture if you continue this behavior. If you are married and considering an affair you are an adulterer if you do it you are a cheater.
2006-10-16 16:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you tried to ask a sincere question and i had to read the answer before i really knew where you were going with this. but i agree with all the above , stay away from her. she is wanting down your pants!
2006-10-16 16:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need learn good English. You need not use English websites. You cannot write proper English. You need to move out of Middle East to sweet american freedom. But you need learn English first
2006-10-16 16:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to me that you need to keep your space form the hoe and tell her straight up that your not interested in her at all...
2006-10-16 16:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by sneakysteph22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep my distance from her if I were you. It's definitely not appropriate for her to be complaining to you about her husband's sexual inadequacy.
2006-10-16 16:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is interested in your goods. Stay away from her.
2006-10-16 16:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋