okay so yeah i have this boyfriend and ive been with him for a while and he treats me sooo good but right now hes in jail because i was sexually assaulted by this other man and my bf beat him up.. no he has a salt and battery and hes in jail... but yet everyone is looking at me like a bad person for being with him... what should i do?
2006-10-16 09:19:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stick to him!
2006-10-16 09:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its assault and battery and is that the whole story or is there more to it if not why are people mad at you and you are the victim. If you didn't lead this guy on in any type of way I wouldn't worry about what people say but If there is more to this story than your saying then you must have a guilty conscience
2006-10-16 16:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he did what he felt was right and even though it was noble it was still against the law. You should stick by him since he is in jail for what someone else did to you. Basically follow your heart and you will be okay.
2006-10-16 16:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he stood by you when you needed him... As long as he isn't causing you harm or dangerous to you, just because he is in jail doesn't make him bad or you a lesser person for being with him.
2006-10-16 16:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are looking at you badly because they don't know the whole entire sitution, people have the tendacy to judge people even if they don't know there story. I believe love is love he loved you and he felt like you were violated and felt it was his duty as your man to protect you and thats what he did.
2006-10-16 16:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Miss _Know_It_All 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is looking at you like your a bad person ummmm ever get the feeling your not hearing the hole story
2006-10-16 16:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him?-right?he'd beaten that man-it was his choice(and i support him-he did the right thing! )so what's up?????!!!!! you shouldn't worry about how everybody else looks at you.you have a cool guy,don't give a d**m what they are doing or thinking,or looking...
good luck
2006-10-16 16:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by risenim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick by his side........he defended your honor no matter the cost to him.
He truly cares for you.....and I think he did the right thing.
2006-10-16 16:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet. He defended your honor- very important! If you love him and he loves you, it doesn't matter what anyone else says or thinks, right?
2006-10-16 16:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to mind their own business! He probably shouldn't have done it but it's totally understandable why he did it.
2006-10-16 16:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him. He is undoubtedly in love with you, but be careful as he might have an abusesive streak.
2006-10-16 16:22:22 · answer #11 · answered by angela g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋