i been wonderin cuz i have allways been soo close too her and i hope that i am not becommin weird cuz it is really freaky too fall in love with your cousins even if thier not by blood too me i been really freakin out i hope that doesnt make me crazy or does it
2006-10-16 09:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am sorry but she is my aunt wynells grandaughter but then wynell married my uncle in my grandmas family i wonder is it still wrong oh and then you for the answers im gonna go pray too god
2006-10-16 09:26:25 · update #1
she is not our real cousin were not even related through blood we just love too call eachother cousins cuz we love eachother
2006-10-16 09:28:29 · update #2
While some family members may be uncomfortable with it. I'm not sure how exactly it would be wrong. It might be a strain on the relationship because of family issues. But it seriously can't be considered immoral.
2006-10-16 09:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by djmantx 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's not illegal, if that's what your asking, but it's viewed by many as socially unacceptable. I'm sure you've seen "kissin' cousins" on Jerry Springer before. You likely aren't interested in becoming that kind of a person -- I doubt that you have the prerequisites to get on that show, anyways.
You're probably feeling this way about your cousin because you've already got so much in common coming into the relationship -- you both know the same types of people, you likely go to the same places because of family events, etc. Expand your social circle by joining an extra-curricular activity in school or in your community. You'll find that these people will probably have the same interests as you do, which will help you to build new, healthy relationships with others that you don't have to feel guilty about.
2006-10-16 09:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew Jesse Brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One - How do you two feel?
Two - How would the family take it?
A NON-blood related cousin is a chance result of her two parents. What if her two parents met AFTER you two hooked up? Would you two have to get a divorce?
You aren't crazy. It's just a society thing. The ONLY reason it's a bad thing is because of the blood thing. If you get the gene pool too narrow, you could have birth defects with kids.
2006-10-16 09:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Actually it is not wrong to marry even your second blood cousin. I would say marrying your first cousin is a bit gross. I don't get your question.
How can someone be your cousin and not be blood related? All cousins are blood related and that is the word cousin.
2006-10-16 09:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin (blood) went out with his (non blood cousin)
I don't think it s wrong
but it was too wiered for them
specially when all the family was making jokes about them
so if you want to start a relation ship with her
just make sure the rest of the family doesn t know
2006-10-16 09:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude go for it! real cousin relationships are the best if your family accepts it great if not screw them its your life and your partner, don’t let jealous people turn you around I have a relationship with my first cousin and its great we share family history have same grandparents but the family doesn’t know we don’t care we love each other and that’s the most important thing.
Birth defect rate is just about the same as everyone else’s and you have many up sides to it!
If Albert Einstein married his first cousin then obviously he is a smart man for doing it!
2006-10-16 14:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have a cousin that's not blood related to you? That's still family, it's not right.
2006-10-16 09:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES THIS DOES MAKE YOU CRAZY-THIS IS FAMILY!!! Even though you are not blood this still is gross and you shouldn't do it-you all were joined together like family and the relationship should be treated as so.
2006-10-16 09:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ashlee H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes u crazy coz that's the way u are and think and you don't have to follow what other people say; its ur feelings not theirs. but if u really love her why would it make you crazy . sure, everybody loves.............. and shes non-blood so it dosent really make her that much of a cousin more like a friend
2006-10-16 09:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by zawye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is your cuz, that means blood,unless your adopted. if thats the case then i say go for it. it,s all about the genes. i've been in love with my 1st cuz since i was in my twenties. i found out she feels the same way. but thats as far as we let it go. the only reason for our decision was our blood runs together. lets face it your tree line is different than the one i faced. talk to your spiritual addvisor or your dad. both if you can. weird na ....
2006-10-16 09:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by mark m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋