i broke up with person B who was a mutual friend of A who is my best friend and tonight she told me that he regretted breaking up with me cuz he told her and person C also a mutual friend who fancies A told me that he regretted breaking up wiv me aswell and he was sorry 4 being mean but person B is just sending me mixed messages so now i don't know what to do i feel like crying cuz i tried so hard to forget about him and pretend like i dont care...he asked me if i was ok i sed yeh but the truth is i'm anything but ok...he took my heart broke it and stood on the peices....what now? my cousin said that she didn't know who i was trying to convince her or myself but either way it isn't working how am i supposed to feel were both 15 btw...
2006-10-16 09:11:02 · 12 answers · asked by pritzy-fairy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey eyes of green....normally i wud totally agree with u but ever since i've been going out wiv this guy cuz of my friend then things are different...ewwww i've gone all mushy!!!
no seriously what do i do?
2006-10-16 09:16:45 · update #1
Kt C hi u asked why we broke up well honestly i have no idea he just said he just wanted to be friends and yes we've been friends for ages my best friend A set us up and C helped A set us up...
2006-10-16 09:29:21 · update #2
So... getting through that swamp... your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up with you and two of your mutual friends told you he regretted it, now you're sad because you're getting mixed messages. Got it.
First, you need to consider the fact that you're both fifteen years old. This is likely the EXACT reason why your ex is behaving this way, because he probably likes you a whole lot, but because he screwed up he's not sure how to take the situation. In your position, I would sit him down and just talk to him and tell him either you're totally fine with what happened and you would be more than happy to be back with him (AVOID THE PHRASE "take you back"... It sounds awful, doesn't it?).
If he still behaves in a manner befitting a fifteen year old, then chalk it up to the fact that he's still a fifteen year old. The best thing for you to do is act as if everything is normal -- if you'd still want to be with him after the fiasco -- or look elsewhere after giving him some time.
I gotta come up with a maxim for my views on the importance of communication... any ideas from the peanut gallery?
2006-10-16 09:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew Jesse Brown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM he obviously still likes you and maybe you still like him to... tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to get back together... if you need some alone time.. just tell him that....... y did u break up in the first place.... and dont lie to him.. tell him how you really feel the best thing is to be honest with him.. but dont be too mushy or too desprete cuz that will turn him off... if you were going out then you probably know each other pretty well or at least you shud and you def. shud know him well enuf to tell him the truth
2006-10-16 16:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kt C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to let it go, sounds like you are listening to what your friends are saying. you have to look out for your self in these situations, he hurt you once, most likely he will do it again.
try doing stuff with your friends beside talking about him, the more you talk about him the more confused you are going to get. there are plently of guys that would treat you like an angel, take your time, life is short so enjoy it, stop thinking about the past and look forward. wht about that guy over there he is cute, or maybe the guy you seen the other day. plenty out there don't sell your self short go get what you want not what other peole think you should have.
2006-10-16 16:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Gee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If C liked A like U like B then U wud B 4 A 2
2006-10-16 16:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
quit it with the abcs this isnt kindergarten... adn for the advice partr of this answer i think that i think you should just let thinks cool down for a while adn if feelings arise again in the future then you could give it another go but i think for now you should just leave person b and person c as just friends
2006-10-16 16:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning: Isn't it obvious to you ,you poor little dear. Your so called best friend 'A' is screwing your ex-boyfriend 'B' behind your back. He is also screwing 'C' & thinking about a threesome with 'D+E'. He just broke up with 'F' because he wouldn't play with the rest of the alphabet.
I hope this clarifies things
2006-10-16 16:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him. Because it sounds like he still likes you if some way.
2006-10-16 16:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by McGriddles or Random 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
head spinning feel sick! Who? What? I think I am gonna puke.
2006-10-16 16:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2006-10-16 16:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kinda confusing................
instead of being sad y dont u just be friends with him
2006-10-16 16:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by ~^~ M.Lay ~^~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋