For religious reasons, I want to be a virgin until i get married. Problem is it seems like i'm asking for too much. (yeah, i just got dumped by yet another guy when he found out why i kept turning him down)
Am i asking for something impossible?!?!
2006-10-16 09:00:41 · 26 answers · asked by sfuiio y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, definitely not impossible. I'm a guy and I'm also waiting until I get married...it's just that a lot of guys need to get physical 'cause that's how they sort of connect strongly with their partners. But there are definitely guys out there who wouldn't mind that. Just be patient, finding the right guy who suits you takes a while. Never ever give it up unless YOU feel like it's what you want no matter what, there's always gonna be another guy out there and possibly better.
2006-10-16 09:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone with the same values and beliefs as you and if this is proving to be a strain on your relationships so far, then those aren't the right ones for you anyway...!
i think you're not asking for impossible, its just a condition that you want. Its just like a guy saying "I want a 6 ft blonde with brown eyes" - it narrows the pool of potential down by quite a bit, but if you know what you're looking for then its also a good thing.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 10:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by godfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! KEEP getting dumped by those idiots. It is a part of the weeding out process. They just wanted to get into your pants. Don't give in. You are doing the right thing. The young people today are WAY too promiscuous. No guy wants to marry a girl who has been with 20 other guys.
2006-10-16 09:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not asking for too much! If a man loves and respects you then he will wait for you. Don't give up hope just cause you haven't found the right guy yet. You will only regret it after.
2006-10-16 09:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are not asking for too much. If a guy really loves and cares for you then he will have no problem respecting your wishes. I was the same way. Save it girl!! Don't let them push you into doing something that you don't want to do.
2006-10-16 09:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by jazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to be a virgin and date guys too. I know alot of guys that wont even ask for kiss and will be happy to date you. Find a guy like that, best bet is in church, love.
Also, just hang out in public places and dont be alone watching a movie on the couch. You will lead them to belive that this is leading to that and badabing bada boom.
2006-10-16 09:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you really want then you need to let the guy know way before your emotions get to involved that way it doesn't hurt so bad. I wish that I would have waited a little longer then I did. Hang in there it will be worth it :)
2006-10-16 09:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not asking too much, just make sure that you are doing it for the right reason, because some dead guy told you to is a little silly dont you think?
2006-10-16 09:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Amy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not asking for too much. You are being straightforward and honest and a man that truly loves you will respect that. Hold onto your morals. Never give up what you believe in for anyone.Your Prince Charming will be willing to wait. :)
2006-10-16 09:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not asking for something impossible. It is also good cause it lowers the risks of get an infection.
2006-10-16 09:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by cute angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋