After losing a wonderfull wife/friend/lover/soul mate, I have moved on and have a new partner, I miss and love my wife, and I feel guilty feeling this way as i now have very deep feelings for my new partner. anyone with a similar experince?
2006-10-16 08:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to say she passed away, (Cancer)
2006-10-16 08:55:25 · update #1
you sound like you have a big heart. im so sorry for your loss. but you have been given another chance for happiness grab it dont question it and nobody expects you to forget your first wife good luck
2006-10-16 09:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never stop loving ur partner that passed away...( im so sorry for ur loss )... and thats not a bad thing always remember them... but ur new partner is a new chapter in ur life u can make new memories and its ok to feel love for them don't feel guilty jus be happy wiv the memories u hav and the memories u are goin to make.... good luck babe
2006-10-16 15:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by scaryfaerie13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to be hard...no1 will ever replace your wife...feeling guilty is natural...but life does carry on and brings great things along the way (ur new partner)...be happy...
2006-10-16 15:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by poshnosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if she died, or left you. If she died, she would mos certainly want you to move on and be happy, that's what love is about. If she left you, then be happy with the person you are with. Either situation should cause no guilt on your part. Move on to the next phase of your life. Everything we do in life is a learning experience, take your knowledge and apply it to your new situation.
2006-10-16 15:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Hwy2?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel gulityy no one wiil ever replace your wife or the love u had for her but she has gon now and would proably want you to be happy
2006-10-17 09:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did wifey die? If she did I can understand your feelings for her being there...
It's not ever gonna be the same...but enjoy your partner now..
good luck....be well.................
2006-10-16 15:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋