...to be with someone either spouse or while dating, to make a comment about a member of the opposite sex or someone they see is very attractive, i.e. "wow She's hot" or "MMM He's fine"? We all know it's true. There are other people in the world who are hot and that dosent mean we are dropping you for them anyways, right? So why do so many people get all mad at these things?
2006-10-16 08:29:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree, my husband and I are always doing that. We know that we are very hott to each other. When were at the mail we both say something about the opposite sex. Its not hurtful at all. Some people are insecure about themselves.
2006-10-16 08:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why people get mad about that. My fiance' and I pass comments about people we see of the opposite sex. I clown around with him and ask him if he wants me to hook him up. Really, maybe it was something that happened in a past relationship or somthing that happened to a close family member or friend that they had to witness and it still affects them.
2006-10-16 15:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends... Not everything that is true needs to be said out loud. There's such thing as being tactful and polite; in human interaction, most things by far are best kept to ourselves. If I start announcing my every thought and feeling, I will have no friends, no job and no mate. It's just general common sense.
2006-10-16 15:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think EVERYONE thinks this way. In fact, I don't know many married people who do. Most people have already established a trusting relationship before they tie the knot that things like that don't matter anymore. Maybe you need a new girlfried / wife with a little more trust in you & self confidence in herself.
2006-10-16 15:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I do it all the time and joke about it. If I know he's looking at a woman i.e. There's a woman standing by a car I'll say 'Stop drooling over that car." To which he'll reply 'What car." And he does the same with me.
2006-10-16 15:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Troubled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity.
2006-10-16 15:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you make such a rude comment? It is disrespectful to the person you are commenting on and to your spouse/date.
2006-10-16 15:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t think it's bad - my husband does it and I just think funny and a bit sad too - although he does start to go overboard sometimes at which point I get pissed off.
I think most women don;t like it because it makes them insecure and jealous
2006-10-16 15:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by misscynic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well my ex boyfriend did that just to get me mad and i got so mad 1 time i left 4 several weeks!!
2006-10-16 15:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by claniqi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime insecurity is the reason but I see it as a sign of disrespect
2006-10-16 15:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋