My friend moved to newcastle last year. This year however I found out that she is missing and I dont even know if she ran away or was kidnapped...
I just found out from friends this morning, and shes been missing at least 1 day...
It really hurts because I have her old number and not her new number and no1 wld give me her number and I know she reads the SMS and probably replies to them and they are lying to me. She was my only ever friend, she wasnt someone who wld ever backstab me.
I dont know what else to say... Please help me deal with this, and if you think there is anything I can do please tell me. I cant not worry, because that is very hard for me
2006-10-16 08:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by jackyboy1 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Heya so sorry, I meant her mobile, shes not at her house... Will whitepages still work?
2006-10-16 08:27:03 · update #1
Heya so sorry, I meant her mobile, shes not at her house... Will whitepages still work?
2006-10-16 08:27:06 · update #2
Oh and shes meant to be in Newcastle, and Im in London...
Im so sorry for not making it clear guys!
Thanks for all the suggestions :D
2006-10-16 08:28:10 · update #3
Prayer works.
2006-10-16 08:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is best to not get negative about this first of all. A negative feeling about thing will depress you. Also, you can do nothing about this but pray for her unless you know something that might help the police find her. Did she ever speak of anyone there, guy wise etc?
Somethings are just out of our control in life. We can't change them and we can't wish them away. And sometimes we get no answers. I have a friend who I thought was happily married with 8 kids. She loved her children. Then out of the blue one year I get a card from her husband saying they were divorced and that he had all the kids. And that was all he would tell me. So I am left hanging with lots of questions. What happened? Why would she not have her kids? Where is she? The fact is, I may never know and my worrying about it only makes me worse so I have prayed for her and let it go.
Pray for her and if you never hear anymore let it go. God knows where she is and He is able to help her more than you can at this point.
2006-10-16 08:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very obvious that he is using you. You should stay away from him and not be "friends" with him anymore. He seems like a dangerous person too if he says that he will damage someone's car. Jealousy is a very strong emotion and he is very jealous when he sees you with other guys. Jealousy is also very dangerous because you don't know what he is capable of doing when he is jealous. He sounds like a freak. He is trying to tell you what to do and who is he to do that? You should have ended your relationship with him once he asked you to sleep with him! Also you shouldn't be dating any of his friends or anybody that is close to him, why get yourself into that if you already know that he is a creeper. Trust me, he is manipulating you. He is finding ways to make you feel bad about what you did when you don't even do anything bad! If I were you I would never talk to this guy again and stay far away from him. I don't understand how you still hang out with this guy after everything he has done to you.
2016-03-28 11:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I'm really sorry to hear that, must be really rough to deal with that sort of thing. Of course it's ok to worry it's what friends do they worr about each other. But, if it's only one day most probably she's ok, maybe she's staying with someone else or something and just didn't mention it to her guardians or something. Talk to someone about these concerns, like someone in real life not cyber space that will help more, not that everyone on here won't try their best to help of course. Take care, good luck, hope she's ok.
2006-10-16 08:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayer works only for your emotional state if you believe in the stuff. It doesn't work in reality. I imagine you want to be reassured in the real world, instead of kidding yourself.
hey, she can't be backstabbing you. Your only friend? More the reason to find her. If she was really doing that, then she would block your number, not make up the story of the missing stuff.
The best you can do is talk to the police, and keep trying to contact her, so that if she is really emotionally stressed and ran away, she would consider coming to you, or at least contacting you.
good luck to you both.
2006-10-16 08:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well good luck with finding your friend I hope she is safe where ever she is. All I can say is pray for her. I will keep her in my prayers. I would go around and ask everyone if they have seen her, bring a picture for people who don't know her. good luck
2006-10-16 08:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bonnie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried whitepages.com to find her phone number? you can always go to the post office where she use to live and find out if her family put in a change of address, if so, it's public record and they will give you the new address. i hope you find out soon what happened to your friend
2006-10-16 08:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey im so sorry i hope u find her im sure u will maybe shes just going through a tough time and she'll be back soon a.s.a.p! Good luck and keep smilin' babe! xx
2006-10-16 08:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! She's most likely fine! And if she's not, then how is it your fault! It's not like you could do anything to find out!
2006-10-16 08:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I guest eventually, we can just sympathize and carry on with our life as happily as we can dictate?.
2006-10-16 08:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by KghC_thegreatest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋