is it unfair on my part to ask him to marry me? he is as old as me and he likes me too
2006-10-16 08:15:24 · 17 answers · asked by jojokiki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its not unfair if you both feel the same way !!
2006-10-16 08:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a virgin for a reason maybe he is waiting for that one right person, if you are the one I don't see what the concern is.. make sure he wants the same thing and go for it,, I married the only person I ever had sex with, we are together 13years, (married 7) and have 2 kids and going strong
good luck
2006-10-16 15:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not unfair to ask him to marry you. He's probably waiting to be married before he has sex anyway.
However, I would make sure he LOVES you first. Just liking someone isn't exactly a good way to roll the dice.
2006-10-16 15:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unfair if he knows what he's getting into. He obviously knows you are not a virgin, don't you think he's old enough to make that decision by himself? If you have concerns then discuss them with him.
2006-10-16 15:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by spirit filled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with this man, him being a virgin shouldn't matter at all to you. Just keep going in the relationship and see where it leads.
2006-10-16 15:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin shouldn't even be a consideration.
You guys should talk about your relationship and go from there.
2006-10-16 15:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you? or does he LOVE YOU? Big difference. How long have you been together? What difference does it make if the guy is a virgin?
2006-10-16 15:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean "virgin u have to marry me to get some?" no, women have had to carry that burden for years why can't a man. don't pressure him either. I think it would be a wonderful night for him.
2006-10-16 15:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single father---wish I could find me a virgin girlfriend- I would ask in a heartbeat!!
2006-10-16 15:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think befor you have sex, in alot of cases sex ruins relationships,
and having sex links the two of you . . . Q # :2 Ask him no harm in asking, but do not be surprised if you dont recieve the answer you want. Tackle the situation lightly.
2006-10-16 15:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋