I've just found out a friend is having sex with a teacher at the local school, then 10 mins ago I found out that another friend is seeing the same man. He's a married man with children my age and I use to date his son, we're still close. Do I say something?
2006-10-16 07:36:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry maybe I should have said the two friends are over 21yrs old
2006-10-16 07:41:47 · update #1
They are over 21... ad they know he's married...obviously and still see him. Anything you say or do will likely cause a rift between you and your friends. If you tell the wife.... things won't change even if she divorces him.... You best action is no action... let them learn from their own mistakes..... and if you can't do that, know that things will not be the same after your action.... no matter what you decide don't act quickly...think the whole thing through.... and be adult enough to live with your actions.
2006-10-16 08:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the pupils? If they're 16 or under, then definately yes. If they're older the 16 - well, it starts getting a bit hazy. He's in a position of trust though - so I would still lean towards talking to somebody.
2006-10-16 07:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send an anonymous letter to his wife and make sure she gets it so address to her and put time sensitive information at the bottom that way she will open it and not her husband. and for god's sake dont say anything to his son. It might hurt him too bad.
2006-10-16 07:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if under 16 call the cops or the school board
2006-10-16 07:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by raudidave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you confidentialy report it. to your local counseling service or police if the peoplein question are minors.
2006-10-16 08:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by ineedsomecoffeenow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he needs to be "taught" a lesson lol
2006-10-16 07:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! This man is a pedophile who is absuing the trust placed in him. Please protect others from this person and turn him in to the appropriate authorities.
2006-10-16 07:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Proud to be an American 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IF YOUR FRIENDS ARE UNDER AGE CALL THE COPS THATS JUST PLAIN WRONG AND SICK
2006-10-16 07:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by playa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋