If your husband or boyfriend gave you an STD? Would you forgive him and take him back or would you kick his as* to the curb?
2006-10-16 07:35:58 · 40 answers · asked by selfchecku 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be very hurt if it happened to me. Not only did he disrespect you, he had no concern for your health. I hope you went and got an aids test and hopefully its negative. You have to ask yourself is he worth risking your life over, especially if you have a child who needs its mother. I dont like to tell people to leave their partner, just look at the big picture. If you forgive him and stay, what are the chances he wont do it again? My heart goes out to you, follow your intuiton, it will always steer you in the right direction.
2006-10-16 15:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the curb most definitly I could never stay with someone after being cheated on especially if they gave me an STD.
2006-10-16 07:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...if he had the STD prior to me and was unaware of it I guess I would have to forgive him...however if we had been together for a long time and then I got it then it would be because he cheated on me and then I would definately kick his A** to the curb. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-10-16 07:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this means he cheated on you, dump him. Period. If he had it before he met you and didn't tell you, dump him. Period. The only way this would ever constitute an actual relationship is if he discussed the situation with you and you both took the necessary precautions to lower the risk of you getting the STD.
If he didn't know he had it...find out how he got it. If it was a past relationship, he may not have known if she was infected, she may not have known she was infected...it can come from anywhere nowadays...
As long as he didn't cheat on you, or deceive you, you should try to work things out if you really love him.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-16 07:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man gave you an STD, that's crazy! Ok so the question is did he give it to you in the beginging of the realationship or in the middle. Basically was he cheating? Um I would be pissed off, hella. You should always use protection, evn if you know he is clean. I know when your in the moment and the last thing you want is to ruin the moment by asking if the guy has a condom, but it's for your own saftey trust me. He could have alot of different things, like aids, or HVP. That's causes cervical cancer in women! yea, so dump his *** off now!
2006-10-16 07:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by prettyartisichuskey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to go to the curb on this one. That's no different than him hitting you with a hammer - though the lasting effects of some STDs are eminently worse than a hammer injury.
2006-10-16 07:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he know he had the STD and didn't tell you??? if yes kick his ***. Did he get it from someone else while with you - did he cheat??? Kick his *** to the curb...
Did he get it before you and didn't know??? well, that's a hard one, depends on your relationship.
If he did the first two get a lawyer and take everything he has...
2006-10-16 07:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by BunnyRabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb. How did he get the STD?
2006-10-16 07:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A more real issue would depend on whether he was your boyfriend or your husband. Boyfriends might stray and, shame on him, bring you an STD. But a husband bringing home one is showing total lack of concern for your health and for the marriage vows.
2006-10-16 07:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a hard one...it would depend on the situation...if I did forgive...it would take a lot to get past it...right now I would say that no I couldn't forgive...but I wouldn't be able to answer that with 100% certainty until the situation actually happened...I say go with your heart...in that kinda thing you have to do what it right for you at that time...
2006-10-16 07:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Luv_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋