To want to have your cake and eat it too, as long as it's a secret and no one is getting hurt?
2006-10-16 07:35:16 · 13 answers · asked by tear streeked angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The cake I have isn't interested in being eaten
2006-10-16 07:50:43 · update #1
I'm with you! I don't think there's anything wrong with it.......until you get caught......I didn't always think that way, however, I have recently found myself in that situation. Good luck...
2006-10-16 07:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wrong is that one day the secret will come out, they almost always do, and then someone or some people will be hurt for no good reason. It IS selfish to be dishonest with another, especially a partner, better to end the first relationship, and then go for the cake. In the end it's up to you and your sense of right and wrong and the rest of us have no right or mandate to judge you. A quick question though, and be honest what would it do to you if you were on the receiving end of the deception?
2006-10-16 15:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to answer your literal question it is not scientifically possible. If you eat your cake u no longer have ure cake and if you want to keep ure cake you certainly wouldn't want to eat it!!
2006-10-16 15:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by misscynic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt someone in the long run i dont understand why you dont eat the cake you have if you know what i mean
2006-10-16 14:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I think: you know how serial killers don't feel any remorse for what they did? They're called psychopaths, because they don't feel sympathy.
If you have sympathy, think about what the person you're cheating on will feel when he/she finds out.
Then imagine someone was doing this to your sister or best friend. Wouldn't you think the cheating guy was scum? Scum is a hard reputation to rebuild. Don't be scum. Stop cheating.
2006-10-16 15:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens when it is not a secret and everyone gets hurt? Is it worth it then?
2006-10-16 14:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Wrong" is a judgment - so you get to decide what is and what isn't. Ergo, nothing is inherently wrong. So, enjoy your cake!
2006-10-16 14:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMEONE is ALWAYS getting hurt. You may not see the consequences of your decision now, but you will eventually.
2006-10-16 14:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becos ur lying cheating hurting sumwun ur spost to care abowt
2006-10-16 14:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by fredi b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish I was your cake.
2006-10-16 14:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋