How do you tell a friend?

Question

Ok so my best friend, has this problem. She has turner's syndrome, and her body is kinda of boyish, but she also is very heavy set. (not fat, but heavy) She bought new jeans she told me, and I asked her what size did she get? She said, a I wear a 12. I said, well I wear a 13 and that weird. She said, why? I said, because you are a bigger person then me. I wasn't trying to be mean, but come on. She has this sister who is like a toothpick, who helped her pick out her jeans. So she came over and she has had this same problem before. We were sitting at the computer and my mother told me afterwards. "I though Tina, bought new jeans?" I said, she did, why? She said, Because her *** was hanging out of them when she was sitting downin the chair!! I've noticed it, but I didn't want to be mean. She is a 16, and she wears a 12! So how do I tell my friend about this problem without being mean???

she also come from a poor family, but she does have a job, and she bought these jeans. I think she trys them on with a long shirt over them and doesn't realize that they don't fit her at all.

Answer 1

tell her you dont want to be mean but you want her to present herself in a professional manner.and if that doesnt work just tell her, "damn girl!get some jeans that cover your @ss!!!!!!!!!"or have a guy friend tell her.

Answer 2

Start off by telling her that your not trying to be mean and that you would rather her get mad at you then have someone stare at her crack and laugh at her. Tell her that you would really like to help her next time she goes shopping because you think that it would be fun trying on clothes together. That your her best friend and you want the best for her.

Answer 3

well, in the nicest way you can, tell her that theres nothing wrong with being a size 16, and its worse to try to fit into something you cant, than be comfortable in something that fits. good luck!

Answer 4

just tell her that she needs to buy bigger jeans