what if your man tells you that he cheated on you than he says thats not true ... that he only said that to make you mad .... what would you believe..
2006-10-16 07:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'd believe he was an insensitive idiot that wasn;t worth your time or energy
2006-10-16 07:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would probably believe that he cheated because that is so mean to just say that to make you mad and I would always have that on my mind and wonder if it is true. sit him down and tell him how you feel and that you want the truth one way or the other because that isn't something that your man should be saying to you.
2006-10-16 14:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of like the first two answers.
I suppose it depended on my relationship with my man. My boyfriend can act somewhat goofy at times and get a bit hateful. However, I trust him more than I trust myself and would believe what he told me.
What was his motivation if that's the case, he was trying to make you mad... OK, it worked, now what? Or maybe he was just trying to guage your reaction to the news, "test the waters" so to speak.
Regardless, it was a really crappy thing to do and I'd take a good long hard look at your relationship and where it was going.
2006-10-16 14:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch him either way. If I were in your shoes, I would still believe that he cheated. I realize that when you're in a relationship sometimes you say things just to push each other's buttons, but this is just too cruel to excuse. Even if he WAS just trying to make you mad. I would consider it an attempt to cover his butt and a blatant admission of guilt.
After my ex-fiance and I broke up he told me that he only bought me a ring so I wouldn't dump him. This is not quite as severe as telling me he was cheating, but it's still crappy. If he were face to face with me when he told me that I would have shoved the ring down his throat.
2006-10-16 14:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that if he actually cheated he would never bring it up. But then I would question his love for me. Throwing cheating into the mix tells me he doesn't worry about losing me. What kind of thing is that to you use to make your partner jealous. I think you need a new man.
2006-10-16 14:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since this happened to me, I'd say he told you the truth about cheating on you.
My bf would make jokes with me for about6 months telling me about this girl and stuff and work, and i would get suspicious about it then he told me i was overreacting. When May came along he finally told me that he was telling the truth in the first place. Always trust your instinct.......
2006-10-16 15:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by x_victoriamae_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that he enjoys reactions. It doesn't matter if they are negative or positive. He's a manipulator. Plain and simple. He has told a lie. Which is the lie and which is the truth? At this point does it really matter? Who wants to spend their life trying to guess between the lines?
2006-10-16 14:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisstickletoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, He probably just took it back because he realized he never should have told you in the first place and didn't want to hear you nag about it or lose you.
Heck, even if he is telling the truth, who wants an @sshole who is going to play those kind of stupid games?
P.S. Pls answer my Q "Is it lust or something more." I am so clueless! Thanks
2006-10-16 14:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd believe he's an a**. I wouldn't waste any more time caring what the truth is.
2006-10-16 14:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think i would be a little cautious...you dont know for sure which time was the truth........
2006-10-16 14:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by juslookin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋