Does your husband revolve his life around sex- as if that is all he thinks about? Tell me about that, and also tell me what the things are that you love and hate about him. Men, if you want to tell me about the good and bad qualities you have, or someone you know, then tell me, haha! I was just curious because my grandmother was telling me about all the men she had been around and how sex- oriented they were...
2006-10-16 07:18:31 · 9 answers · asked by audrey'sheretohelp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first husband was a selfish man. He also did not have a clue on how to please me in bed, but he sure thought he did. He traveled extensively with work and he would come home after being gone for a few eeks and want a "quickie" right away.....sometimes while our toddlere aged twins played by themselves on a different level of the house than us. He always promised if he had a quickie then he would make it up to me later that night and he would last longer because of it..but it never happened. Sex was so bad I turned it off for the longest time. After I dumped him I found a guy who knew his way around a woman and I realized that the problem was with HIM and not me! My new husband is so much better. He makes sure I am satisfied before he lets himeslef finish........He is kind and soft spoken. I love having him around and we are expecting a baby of our own Feb 2, 2007.
2006-10-16 07:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on the man. Not all of them think this way. I have been married to my husband for 13 years. Sex does play a big role in our marriage, I think it's healthy and normal. But our life's don't just revolve around Sex!!! He is a very Hard Working, Intelligent, Helpful and Loving. I love the fact, he always puts our son and me first regardless of the situation. He always likes to spend family time. He likes to take me out on dates and romances me often. But I have to say their is a couple of things that bug the heck out of me. First of all I hate when he goes to the restroom and leaves the seat up. Second I hate when he takes off his shoes or cloths and doesn't pick it up. I also hate the fact that he never wants to drive when ever we go out.. But then again we are not all perfect!!! I'm sure their is some things he do sent like about me as well. But I guess we just try our best and not just because they are minor issues. We are gonna get a divorce or argue about it all the times.
2006-10-16 14:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 15 years and he isn't like that at all. We have a great life together. We have a lot of focus on our 2 children, money issues, and other things and sex is something that we have on average...about every 5-7 days. Too much focus on sex and you lose out on all of the other important things in life.
My husband is really great. He supports me and tells me and the kids he loves us everyday. He is fun to be around and is a terrific father! I would be lost without him.
The things that bother me about him?? Well, he has a tendency to want to help me tell my stories, lol. If his Mom is here, I will be trying to tell her something and then he completely takes over the conversation...ughhh, irritates the daylights out of me when he does that. I also wish he would brag on me and our kids a bit more. He wasn't raised with that, so I guess it is hard for him to do. I just believe it is important to let others know how great they
are, but I grew up hearing it...anyhow, he is actually a wonderful person and I know that if any of us were in trouble he would risk his life to save us any day!
2006-10-16 14:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one thing that men think about more thasn anything else, is sex. My husband and I have a very nice sexaully relationship without any problems there. My husband is loving and I could not have found a better person to spend the rest of my life with.
2006-10-16 14:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. my husband is really sex-oriented. Sometimes i am not in the mood to have sex and he is. I can't say no b/c he thinks i'm cheating on him or i don't love him anymore.
The good qualities about him are that he is a good and loving dad. He is very supportive and loving.
His bad qualities are that he is overly jealous, he thinks he's always right, he's too emotional, he want's to have sex everyday (and sometimes I don't want to), he gained weight and he argues about the stupidest things.
2006-10-16 14:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Yessenia A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't - I kinda wish he would! (lol) I love his generosity, the way he handles business, his talents (musical arts, he's a doc), the way he takes such good care of my daughter like she is his natural born, his body, his smile, his taste, the way he takes such good care of us no matter what.
I HATE the way he worries sometimes, the way he won't let go of my faults until he feels they're under control, the way his life doesn't always revolve around s e x (lol - for real, though...) and the way he calls his Momma when I make him frustrated.
Everyone has different issues and different sex drives - just hope you get the right match.
2006-10-16 14:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually our sex life is not the most important thing.We are both career driven,and love to travel.After 24 years together I dont think sex is the #1 issue for the couples I know.
2006-10-16 14:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We aren't married yet but I will answer this question. No Sex is not the only thing in our relationship and actually I think about it more than he does. I Love everything about him, and he knows the one thing I hate that he does. Looking at other women, talking about other women, and used to email other women, but he quit that(or at least I think he did)
2006-10-16 14:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is a given
2006-10-16 14:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by f1avor_f1av 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋