My boyfriend said to me today that I have been really mean to him lately. This is something I only notice when he points it out other then that I really don't even notice. I feel terribly about it and apologized but that fact that I didn't even know I was doing it scares me. So here's the question...I am six months pregnant could this have any affect on how I been treating him? Is it just all the emotions and tired of being pregnant getting to me or what?
2006-10-16 07:11:34 · 14 answers · asked by Chacacon 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if you're tired of being pregnant imagine how tired you'll be afterward.......
it could be hormonal or maybe you're always that way -what does the father to be say?
2006-10-16 07:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could be because you are pregnant. Your hormone levels are through the roof. You want really be able to control them until about a month postpartum. At least that is how it was for me. Just try talking to him to make him understand that you are having a hard time with this also.
2006-10-16 14:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize, its it probably the emotional roller coaster you are on. It may be that when you need to vent he is the target, not because of what he did, but because you trust him. Figure out a signal he can give you when you are getting nasty to him that lets you know to step back and take a breath. Best of luck with everything!! (I did the same thing to my husband - it gets better - really it does)
2006-10-16 14:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by akelaamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...the situational and hormonal effects of being pregnant can cause mood swings. Most pregnant women are irritable and cranky. Reassure him that it only gets worse the more uncomfortable you feel. lol It might help you both to talk about how you feel...anxiety and excitement-wise.
2006-10-16 14:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Chicken! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 6 months pregnant also and i think it has a lot to do with it. My husband says i am more emotional- which means im yelling at him and fighting with him i cry and all the other emotions you can have so ask him to be patient with you its not really your fault
2006-10-16 14:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress effects you emtionally and phyiscally and your hormones are all other the place. They usually use medicine but you don't want to take any while pregnant, find areas to take time outs and be away from people in your home is the safest place.
2006-10-16 14:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be feeling a little bit anxious about the baby and you´re taking it on him. The hormones are terrible in that period of the pregnancy, believe me. my husband and I know it. relax and try to talk with your boyfriend about your true feelings and deepest fears. Good look!!!!
2006-10-16 14:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by la_goni2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are all out of synch while pregnant. Also, the mental and physical and strain can be having an effect on you.
2006-10-16 14:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by ammecalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T AUTOMATICLY TAKE THE BLAME FOR THE WHOLE THING.....HE COULD BE ALOT MORE UNDERSTANDING...YOU DIDN'T GET HERE BY YOURSELF.
NEVER APOLOGIZE UNLESS YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID WRONG....IT'S NOT A GOOD WAY TO FIX ANYTHING.
TAKE A DEEP BREATHE AND THINK ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT YOU MEANT...IF YOU MEANT NO HARM STICK TO YOUR GUNS
2006-10-20 11:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are six months preggers and you are asking this. Lemme guess, yer last name ain't Einstein.
If he hasn't asked to marry you yet, go find a hamster for companionship and a real human being for a husband.
2006-10-16 14:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋