a guy had a dream that he was in his dorm room sleeping, and he woke up to hear 3 guys giggling under a blanket in the room. one of the guys was his (straight) roommate. so he gets up and goes to the bed that has his rooommate and 2 other guys and he tries to sieze them from doing what they're doing, but they just fend him off. then he goes out into the hall and calls the monitor, but he wakes up. what does this mean? and please don't say the guy is gay, cuz he's not. can anyone (serious) interpret this for me?
2006-10-16 06:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by luvluv 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This dream is about fear and insecurity. The person having the dream is a bit overwhelmed by the independence and freedom of college life, wishing for the safety, security and rules back home.
Roommate = another version of you
Other guys = college life
Monitor = parents
2006-10-16 06:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 The guy that had a dream thinks 3 guys are laughing at him behind his back may have been bullied in the past or at collage . Doesn't like to loose therefore likes having authority over others due to low self-esteem.
2 Could also be that the guy is insecure and doesn't adapt to change well.
2006-10-16 13:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The is guy is highly insecure about lots of things.
He could have issue about self esteeem (from giggling sound) or
respect from others.
Calling the monitor = seeking for help, support.
Basically, this guy needs attention and respect of some sort.
2006-10-16 15:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best for the dreamer to try and interpret this dream since it was his dream and the symbols would be his. In Gestalt psychology a dreamer is to take each part of the dream and become it, in his mind, and talk as if he is that aspect. If done well, it would bring up feelings and ideas that would help solve the mystery of the dream and its symbols.
2006-10-16 13:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i t could just possibly mean that the 1st guy wants, or is longing for some type of deep friendship with the 2 other guys he knows.
try going to a book store, and look up dream books. I did that once, and it had nothing to do with the 'details' of the dream, but i was needing a way to talk to someone, go figure.
the price is about $15
2006-10-16 13:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's just a memory from his days as a young boy. Seriously would you think anything wrong with 3 really young boys playing under a blanket?
His adult mind turned it into something perverted.
2006-10-16 13:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a gay dream at all
its an out of control dream
The is a "fear" issue on several levels in your personal space.
Which most likely translates to having stress with personal issues and./ or stress from some thing they feel is out of their control.
Not a problem, Just have him dream that he solves the problem and it was all just a practical joke on him "in" the dream. That will defuse all the issues of fear in real life or about that "gay" dream.
2006-10-16 13:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy has an issue with his gay roommates, like he disapproves of their behavior, but he feels powerless to stop them.
2006-10-16 13:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem adapting to having those room mates and his subconscious mind is trying to sort it out in his dream.....
He feels helpless to control them, and he's is right - he can't cotrol them. However, he CAN and IS affecting them too, he should find comfort in that.
2006-10-16 13:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
signifies,,, some latent fear of living with gay room mates behavior...
If you feel it compormises your morals.. get new roomates....
some spiritual undertones here too.
2006-10-16 13:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋