ok,lets see, how do i ask a guy out? he might be gay, but i am too. but he might not be. i suspect he is. how can i tell? how do i show him that i am without letting others know? how do you 'cruise'? or somthing or other? help me. please? well, let me explain our friendship to you, in short, i go to meetings,he sits by me. i met him in JDC. we have never been in an arguement. we get along well. i really like him. im 16 he is 15. he always raises his eyebrows 2 times at me when ever we meet. what is that about? IDK if he likes me or not but i know that i like him very much so. help me someone.
2006-10-16 06:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by I Smoke Cigarettes 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you spend any time with him outside of these meetings of yours? I think that you should. Even if he's not gay, this would be the way to pursue a friendship. The more you hang-out, the more he will come to trust you, and then you will know what to do, gay or not. I know that it can be difficult not knowing, but it may take finesse and friendship, and afterwards, you'll either have a boyfriend or a bestfriend, not a bad deal.
2006-10-16 07:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by zea_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do a threesome with him and try some touching see how he responds, this way you also get to his goods in action and watch if he is turned on by you.
If not then nobody is any the wiser about you being gay. He may think about that night and go further a second time.
2006-10-16 17:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For crying-out-loud. Sit with him at the lunch table. Try the eyebrow thing on him to see if it has any effect. Ask him over to study. You'll come up with something .... just don't be so coy about it.
Oooorrr ... just write a note to him. "Do you like me? Circle YES or NO"
2006-10-16 14:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he'd like to grab a sandwich, cup of coffee, coke---whatever after a meeting some time. That ought to get things rolling.
2006-10-16 13:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out as a friend first. ITs not like you are going to ask him to marry you. Ask him out for a fun time, bowling, rollerskating, movies,etc. Get to know him first. I am sure that as time goes on you will definetely know if he is gay, if he has not already told you. Just take the time to know him first!
2006-10-16 16:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to take a risk. One of the first people who knew about me was an older friend who was also in the closet and he came to me. Good luck with it.
2006-10-16 15:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, you sound like a 13 year old girl. F**cking just ask him, if he is, great, if not, oh well. Take the bull by the horn now, maybe you won't grow up to be such a wuss.
2006-10-16 13:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will invent a 'story' af this two guys who like each other but neither of them tell the other one his thoughts, but they went alone in every thing, and fell in love but did not tell.
ASk him what he do in a situation like that.
2006-10-16 14:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny all you can do is make suggestions towards him or even better just ask him if he's interested. Go for it mate!!
2006-10-16 13:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes guys and go from there
if he says no say: o ok i was just wondering
If he says yes then ask him out
2006-10-16 14:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋