why must we bully others?

Question

visit my bullying site, its my profile name

Answer 1

People who are bullies CHOOSE to behave that way it is not something they MUST do.AS parents we must give our children the tools to empower them so they will not be victims of a bully.Bullies are inherently cowards who gain strength and power by trying to physically and/or emotionally abusing others.Their acts are not just kids being kids, it can be life altering for the victim.Parents who see their children acting inappropriately should take steps to correct this behaviour. (Violence towards animals often leads to abuse of children later)Schools are taking a zero tolerance towards bullying.Children have a right to feel safe in their home, their school and their community.Parents do not often see bullying as a threat until their child becomes a victim.As adults let us teach our children to be confident in them self and let them know they can approach an adult if they are in fear.This is not a victimless crime,and a crime it is.

Answer 2

It is wrong to bully anyone . That said - some do not seem to know the difference between being a bully , and going up against a bully .

Answer 3

A group of gorillas are placed in a large cage with a ladder in the middle of it. At the top of the ladder are a bunch of bananas suspended from a wire. One of the gorillas tries to climb the ladder to get the bananas. When he does the entire group is blasted with a fire hose. Several others attempt to reach the bananas with the same result. They then remove one of the original gorillas and bring in a new one. He sees the bunch of bananas and immediately goes for it. However, when he does the rest of the gorillas beat him mercilessly to avoid being blasted with the fire hose. This happens several times, and he doesn't understand why, but knows the bananas are not to be touched. Another of the old gorillas is replaced with a new one who tries to make his way up the ladder to the bananas only to be beaten by the other gorillas in the cage. The gorilla that beats him the most is the one that was most recently introduced, who knows only that he can't go for the bananas for fear of being beaten. Slowly, the scientists remove all the original gorillas and replace them with new ones. Eventually, the cage is filled with gorillas that have no idea why they can't go after the bananas. They only know they will get a severe beating from their peers if they try.

Answer 4

Bullying is a sickness and the people are insecure and usually have been bullied themself. They pass it down the line. Often it goes much deeper.

I have been raised by a narzissist, an married another, because that what I was familar with. During my year long mental and emotional recovery I cought myself often having similar tendencies due to the long exposure. It passes with confidence and self control

Answer 5

For the same reason that pedophiles and drug addicts and cutters and bulemic and anexorics exist.

People transfer energy between one another during the noraml or abnormal course of any interaction. Even in bumping up against someone in public, you can pick up trace energy from them. Moods and circumstances kind of stamp themselves onto our auras and we share and trade and learn and experience via bullying, hurting, swearing at, laughing with having sex with, speaking to, at or against anyone else.

Their are millions of ways to bully... Some are psychological, some are out right and obvious.

Remember it from a buddhist way of looking at it and it will come to inspire wisdom and insight and piety in your heart, rather than the hatred and anger it makes you feel because you hate yourself for allowing others to inflitrate your life and space.

People hide behind causes and groups because they don't have the heart or courage or compassion to understand... Anyone who has it in them to bully you... was first bullied by someone else. The problem lies not in the fact that you had to become inadvertantly involved in someone else working out their pain and suffering, the problem lies in the fact that people these days seperate themsleves from a sence of humanity, a sense of global responsability.

That is what Christ meant when he said to turn the other cheek.

If you are a victum of something like this... it was you and only you that made it that way. When someone bullies you, they are reaching out for understanding of a situation that they can't process or learn to get past. The only way that have to regain their self, their power, their respect is to in turn, do it to someone else. It is called projection and they bully you having absolutely nothing to do with you... But you in turn, get angry not because they do it, but because something inside of you believes them when they make you feel that you are somehow deserving of it.

I can appreciate how you are fighting... but it is just another means of doing the same thing. Turning you therefore into the person who through right action and a twisted take on the same thing, became the bully to another bully.

All they are trying to do in acting like that is trying to regain some dignity having no idea and totally lacking the life skills to do so... Remember that.

Answer 6

Bullying is a trait in people. As adults we've discovered to regulate our impulses (maximum folk have, a minimum of). yet infants are nevertheless springing up and discovering, and a few infants discover themselves able of skill and don't understand the thank you to handle it, and so oftentimes abuse it via picking on others who they see as diverse. The fat youngster, the quick youngster, the youngster with glasses, the youngster with a diverse ethnic background, the youngster with a diverse faith. in terms of the question, Christian young ones are not any diverse to the different young ones. a number of them become bullies and could %. on somebody else (even yet another Christian) in the event that they locate them as an challenge-free purpose. that is unlucky, and there is not any challenge-free answer, yet it quite is the way it quite is.

Answer 7

I think for some people this is how they manifest their personal need for control. Some people try to gain control by influencing others to their way of thinking (fair). Others, like to threaten you to do so with either words or physical confrontation (unfair). I think a need for control is a powerful psychological need that most of us are unwilling to admit that we have. Or at a minimum, we are unwilling to admit how strong it truly is for each of us.

Through faith in Jesus Christ, we can truly "let go" of these things and learn to put God's agenda ahead of each of our own.

Answer 8

IF YOU BULLY OTHERS .
I BELIEVE THERE MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOUR HEAD.
SOMEDAY YOU WILL PICK ON THE WRONG PERSON AND YOU WILL GET YOUR *** KICKED

Answer 9

"We" bully others becausee in all actuallity we feel inferior and it makes us feel superior to put another person down.........really pathetic if you think about it.

Answer 10

If you ask another question I will give you a wedgie.