2006-10-16 05:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by siddharth m 1 in Dining Out ➔ India ➔ Lucknow
How to Impress, Look Good, and Be Friends (or More) With a Girl
Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!)
Steps
1. Be Clean. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl.
2. Have a good attitude No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so Be Yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. It is far more impresive not to try to impress people, this shows that they have to impress you.
3. Show Respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi.
4. Have Good Conversations. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games.
5. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say.
6. All of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze.
7. When around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours.
8. Be Polite to her Parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them.
9. Learn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those.
Tips
* A Great thing to do is show sympathy!. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better.
Warnings
* If you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
* One last, very important thing: An old saying goes, "If you really love her, you will learn to let her go."
2006-10-17 03:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!)
Steps
1. Be Clean. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl.
2. Have a good attitude No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so Be Yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. It is far more impresive not to try to impress people, this shows that they have to impress you.
3. Show Respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi.
4. Have Good Conversations. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games.
5. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say.
6. All of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze.
7. When around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours.
8. Be Polite to her Parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them.
9. Learn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those.
2014-03-17 17:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eighth grade, huh. First off, make sure that you're also of the same age and not over 18. Check? Good. Alright in general girls at this age love attention, but you have to be honest with yourself- are you the type to get this girl? As in, is she out of your league? If she is, people at this age can be very very harsh and she'll flat out reject you.
No matter how many SRK movies you've watched, romancing her with chocolates isn't going to work. If she's a cool girl who already likes you as a person, then a flower one day might be nice. But nothing too over the top, or you'll scare her away. So the first and foremost step is something very simple: "Hi, I'm [insert name here]" if she doesn't already know. After she knows you for a month or two, then you can start. SLOW.
2006-10-16 10:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by KalElVZ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the wording of your question the situation is probably hopeless. You're indicating all the wrong things. Basically you're saying to me: "I'm not good enough for her so I need to find some way to impress her." Be yourself, if that's not good enough(for you) then maybe you should think about changing who you are.
Sidenote: Don't go buying her a million things like I'm sure some other people will suggest. It's not going to help you.
2006-10-16 06:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by John 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well dear, give her choclates , tofees, teddy bears , pastries and all cute things she like. cute puppy also. Always say her she is very beautiful in her school , in this world and smarter then her all the friends . always take her side , talk with her in a very polite way. Dont show attitude at all.If my idea works then mail me and tell at--cuty_gal_tisha@yahoo.co.in, i am olso from lucknow(gomti nagar) in 11 th class
2006-10-16 06:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by cuty_gal_tisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm do you mean gread 8
well if u do theres not much there still young and not all there they really only fall 4 a guy if hes really hot most of the times
2006-10-16 05:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by adambrodyluver4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is just small and not the right time.instead of flirting make some good friendship,then it might turn u'r way.
2006-10-16 18:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by gowrav mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the flower blooms the bee comes flying to it.
just do the best you can in life and if every thing goes right the lass will automatically follow thee.
2006-10-16 06:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by shridharsns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SEE WHAT SHE LIKES IN LUNCH AND TELL UR MOM TO MAKE THAT.........THATS THE EASEST WAY ..............AS THEY SAY...........the way to a girls heart is through the stomoch.
2006-10-17 04:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
insufficient informations, give details.
2006-10-16 06:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by smritish g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋