well the thing is two years ago i used to be a bit@% and i moved away for two years and im a changed person now Im not the gurl i used to be why wont anyone give me a second chance? help
2006-10-16 05:05:39 · 16 answers · asked by momma emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First impressions are the most important.
2006-10-16 05:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So did you move away and come back? A little confused.
Ok, you may be a changed person, but since your asking this question, my assumption is that you dont know that you have to "Be a friend to gain a friend". That takes time.
Its difficult to suggest you to take on that whole "Just be yourself...." attitude because youve changed. But still, just be cool. Be yourself, and treat others the way you want to be treated. Be a friend towards people who share your intrests, and they'll come.
Just remember though, you dont want EVERYBODY trying to be your friend. A lot of people that you think that wants to be your friend, you dont want them around you. People can be cruel. You've seen it first hand right?
Just be cool and be yourself, and value those few close individuals that you connect with.
Glad your cool now, and gudluk!!!
2006-10-16 05:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After just two years, the memories of you being a b**** are still fresh, and they don't have any memories of you not being that way because you just moved back (I assume you did, anyway). You either need to try to make friends with new people, or give these people time to see for themselves that you've changed. You can't expect them to take your word for it.
2006-10-16 05:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by James L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start slow and earn your second chance. People may be a little weary of you because there nervous about ending up on your bad side.
2006-10-16 05:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time for people to see that you have changed. Just hang in there, be as nice & friendly as you can. Offer to help people every chance you get. They will eventually see that you've changed.
2006-10-16 05:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Daydreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show ppl you changed. Send them flowers, hold the JCPenny's door for them. Do something nice. Show them what a great person you really are! GL!
2006-10-16 05:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by LizziFishie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wo born an original . b yaself. u gotta show em dat uve changed, if u want em 2 no uve changed. do summat gd
2006-10-16 05:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by suicidebob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They remember you as you were. You have to show them you changed not tell them.
2006-10-16 07:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill be ur friend, just hit me up with a email, look at profile
2006-10-16 05:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by texasthug420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to try and earn their trust back It's not going to be easy,, but you have to give it time
2006-10-16 05:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋