long story short. I found out my husband have known this girl since she was 16 she is now 18. He said he know her from the neighborhood his cousin live, o;k I really trusted my husband, and I thought o:k why do she have your cell #.Then at that point I went blank. There is no way my husband could be having affiar with this person, so I decided to call her, she swear he was just someone to talk to, he is friend, I ask if they ever had sex she said no. it wasn't like that. he swear he wasn't having sex with her, he called talking to her as just something to do. now by her being so young i decide to call her mother, i told her i needed her help to find out if my husband was sexually involved with her daughter.She called on 3wy she admitted to knowing him, but said he never tried her like that. and that she knew he lived with his old lady, she said. He don't consider knowing her, and talking to her cheating,he said it was only 3min conv. about B.S. I saw no signs. What do I do. Going Cra
2006-10-16 04:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to be honest with yourself. If your husband is sacrificing your trust for a friendship with a female, it means his "friendship" weighs more. There's a romantic essence to this friendship that's why it's hard to give up. He is hoping for something more. Maybe not right now but soon. A male gender does not spend a lot of time with woman/women he is not interested in sleeping with. It's just a matter of time. How would he like it if you also spent some valuable time with another man as so called "friendship". Trust your instincts.
2006-10-16 05:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wondering myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question would be how old is your husband?
Is this girl looking for a father figure or a sugar daddy?
Did he hide this from you and you found out and if he was hiding it that is where the where is this going question coming from.
I would trust him to an extent. I wouldn't want him confiding anything about my marriage to this girl and I sure wouldn't want the calls to become a habit. The more they talk the more a connection could build.
I would just ask my husband to not be talking to her, I would tell him the whole situation makes me feel uncomfortable and insecure. I would tell him that there is really no good reason for such a young girl to become infatuated or attached with an older man without some kind of plan going on in her mind of what is yet to come. You should try and set her up with someone more her age.
Good luck!!!!
2006-10-16 12:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam sorry to her what your goin though, but you know alot of men out ther bsters ya know, spy on them if you can or set up someone that you know that you can trust and hve them flirt with him and see if it trys anything and then catch him and if hes trying to flirt back with that person that you know that you trust well hey girl sure enough its the answer that your lookin for yes hes cheatin honey you got to do something theres a good man out there for every women **** LUCK/////
2006-10-16 12:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by broken chains123456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to rain on your parade, but you can use some english leassons. Your grammar is awful. From what I understood, your husband had her number but you see no signs of missconduct. Trust him, not too loosely though, keep an eye on them but don't let your mistrust turn into paranoia.
2006-10-16 11:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Too Young To Know 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you do about what? If the relationship makes you feel uncomfortable then tell your husband how it makes you feel. Stop with all the drama.
2006-10-16 11:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE TOO INSECURE. LEARN TO DEAL WITH YOUR PROBLEMS.
2006-10-16 12:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you get enough answers yesterday?
2006-10-16 11:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋