the last time i spoke to her she was coming to visit me and told me i should cal her whenever i liked. today her email was, you are to dificult to be a friend with. please leave me alone. what happened? i'm in the dirt and don't know why.
2006-10-16 04:42:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
give her some time and if she doesn't come back, then call her and ask her how she is and just try to be a friend. if she still rejects you than forget her.
2006-10-16 05:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either you did something and she found out about it, or she has moved on and is to much of a coward to tell you the truth. Either way, I think she owes you an explanation. However, you may not get one if she doesn't have the maturity level. Good luck with this one. However, I would not waste a lot of time waiting around if she does not want to give you and explanation, I would move on and consider that she has gone you a great favor. You wont have to waste your time on someone lacking the maturity level to have a relationship. And look at it like this, everything happens for a reason, so, God may be trying to send you he right girl for you, who will have enough respect to talk to you. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-16 04:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her how you're too difficult to be a friend with? And if she can't answer or WON'T answer....then it's either she found somebody else, so you should do the same, or she needs some "me" time cause she's probably going through something, so just give her space and she'll come when she's ready. The latter will be she'll tell you what's wrong, and then you can figure it out from there.
2006-10-16 04:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She changed her mind.
Just leave her alone and if she wants to come back she will....just like Little Bo Peep.
AND Get out of the dirt and go visit your other friends. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 04:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by mrsoscaralvarado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her be. There is a good chance she didn't have the nerve to say this to you and that's why she put in the email. OR, she might just be someone who changes her mind a lot, in which case you are probably better of without her. I'm saying this a woman is both wishy-washy and a chicken. ;)
2006-10-16 04:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to contact her? It sounds as though she may have somehow got the wrong idea or got cold feet.
I would try to call her and ask what went wrong. Above all remain as calm as possible and emphasise that you simply want to talk about what happened.
2006-10-16 04:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Vanguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs more attention than she's getting from you. Apologize and send her flowers. It sounds like you have a long distance relationship and that's hard to keep going. Maybe she's found somebody new. Sorry.
2006-10-16 04:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, it somewhat is... an excellent form of fellows there. *despite if*.... the real query is: has she *replaced*? Is she nevertheless promiscuous? You pronounced you felt like she develop into perfect, so it does not sound that way. Now, i do no longer answer multiple questions, yet this one I ought to declare only hit very on the factor of domicile. approximately 4 years in the past, i develop right into a thoroughly diverse individual than i'm right this moment-- unhappy with myself (as maximum of ladies are), somewhat self-wakeful, and desperate for affection and confirmation. I sought out issues I don't have, to place it mildly. i presumed that if I gave adult adult males what they needed, possibly they could like me. i develop into depressing, and hated myself for what i develop into doing, despite if it escalated and escalated till i develop into in far extra than my head. Then something surpassed off-- I met a chum. He sought me out constantly for communique, and develop into complimentary, courteous, and especially, respectful. that straightforward friendship became me around, and finally I discovered to admire myself. i'm horrified now while i think of of my "previous existence" as I call it, and this is like i'm finding back on yet another individual's ideas. i could never do any of that now. i assume what i'm attempting to declare is, if this female is replaced, please, hear her out. seems to me like she's a competent individual, when you consider which you look very mature, and you had this form of intense opinion of her. take some day without work, to make issues better out, and then refer to her. Does she remorseful approximately it? If no longer, you in all probability made the perfect selection, yet while she does... i think of you need to offer her yet another shot. in case you do no longer understand the psychological reasoning at the back of it, a minimum of you may get her rationalization. i'm curious to work out what occurs, let us know. stable luck.
2016-12-08 15:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is way too short. Just say the word, "Next", 1,000 times and move on.
2006-10-16 06:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone then-let her solve things by herself. maybe she's upset about something. if you try to talk to her, she might get mad and dislike u more
2006-10-16 04:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋