Strangers to friend-Am I doing the right thing?Please help! Thank you!?

Question

Its like this.I meet a guy at the carpark one day in ht hospital,he parked his car near mine-&I asked him for directions.He was such as gentlemen,as he wilingly helped carry my heavy basket.I refused at 1st but he said I could help to carry his file.I did,& he let me walk 1st,(he kept insisted as I was not used to that)& we chatted 4 a while and he seems like a considerate&caring person frm d conversation.By now,I know he's dealing with pc in the hospital,that's all.In the end,I went back 2 car and left him a milk drink & thank you note with my no.My no was't obvious& a little effort needed to get the no.2 days late he sms me.we sms a few & later days I saw his car again,I left him 2nd note saying I saw his car,& another milk.He called saying thanks.3rd time,another note and a goody bag-foods.He called again.4th time,I look 4 him,gave 2comics&flower,crafts by me.He's suprise&happy.Am I doing d right thing?he does't seem interested&sometimes no sms reply,though.Wat should I do next?thks

Answer 1

At this point, I would back off and stop giving him things. It's too one-sided and that can scare a person off.

Wait a few days. Be polite to him and friendly but it's HIS turn to make a move now.

Answer 2

Leave him alone. Maybe he is married or has a girlfriend. You are annoying him at this point. Stop it.

Answer 3

I'd let him contact me next, he might be married.... if he is interested he'll call you, he's got your number right?

Answer 4

let him come to you next if he wants you he will make a move

Answer 5

STOP leaving gifts, if he is interested he will contact you.

Answer 6

Now just wait, he knows.