I had responses to my previous question, but none helped. Any real idea? Maybe I need real people to help me?
2006-10-16 03:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by carlos298 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
As long as it isn't effecting your ability to lead a normal life, it isn't a problem. But if you are passing up opportunities to participate in life to masturbate, then maybe you should see a therapist. Masturbation is natural and normal as long as it doesn't encompass your whole life.
2006-10-16 03:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop??
Anyway I have a couple of suggestions for you.
A) Put it in a vagina
B) Just don't do it. You might not be able to loose the urge to do it so whenever you feel like doing it....DON'T DO IT.
C) Think about ridiculos situations and make up stories in your head that will distract you. For instance:
What if I worked at a company that makes credit cards. Or better yet what if I started up a company that shredded credit cards? Naw, that would be stupid. I always did want to work at a paper mill for some reason though. Yeah that's it a paper mill. I would mill so much paper! I would mill it hard and fast for a loong time, creamy white paper, mmmm all this work is making me hot. I'm gonna go sit in the breakroom now. Mmmm, they finally put cupcakes in the vending machine. Damnit, this machine never takes my dollars, does anyone have change? Enrique, you got change for a buck? Alright, thanks anyway man. Crap, now I'm going toi have to wait until luch so I can go to the gas station and uy some food. The soda machine takes my bills everytime but I don't want a soda. Blast you and your mockery! I suppose I'll go back to work now, hungry. Oh crap!!! The machine is jammed up, arg, why did I leave. Now I gotta spend my lunch break fixing the machine! Naw, I know what I'll do. I'll have Bill fix it, yeah Bill is a sucker! Hey Bill! CAn you do me a favor? C'mon, I really need this man. Can you unjam this machine, I gotta, erm, I gotta go fix teh ...other machine..yeah, I gotta go fix the other machine. Thanks man! Hahaaa, I knew he would fall for it. What teh hell is on my shoe? Aww, c;mon who would spit gum on the floor? Honestly, we're grown adults. Almost lunch time. Maybe I'll just swing by Arbys instead and get a number five with curly fries. Yeah. Hey Jimmy, wanna go to Arbys with me? Cool. Let's go wash up and clock out................................
Did you think about masterbating while you were reading that? If yes then nothing is gonna stop your urge!
2006-10-16 11:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by zbra1420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 18-21, this makes sense, because some major sex hormones are kicking in for you. Try only doing it when you get a hard on, or if that happens every day, go work out. That'll stop it.
2006-10-16 10:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to quit the habit. Masturbation is good for you and a perfectly healthy normal activity for boys and men. It is not a sin and it feels great. So do it when you want and enjoy
2006-10-16 11:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a book about tantra it will show you methods and outcomes of holding back and possibly make it easier to control the urge to masturb*ate. It could also could possibly make you last longer in bed for your partner because j/o in a hurry causes your body to become accustomed to reaching orgasm faster.
2006-10-16 10:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just cut it off. I think you should be happy you enjoy yourself so much. Are you masturbating because you are not fulfilling your desires in a relationship? Then you have a different question to answer, ask yourself.
2006-10-16 11:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by jzoop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something else. Socialize. Get a girlfriend. Take your mind off of it this way. You are the only person who can stop it.
2006-10-16 10:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dushyanthan D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal carlos.use oil if you masturbate to give you satisfaction.doing it once or twice a week is ok.mzasturbationj is the only way to release the growing number of sperm inside the scrotum.so dont worry enjoy this free sex not harming other people.
2006-10-17 11:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the book "Every Man's Battle". It deals with sexual addictions and habits.
2006-10-16 10:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Alfonsio Ledbetter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a lady that wouldn't mind helping you with that
2006-10-16 10:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ibraidhair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋