What do I do?

Question

Ok, I have a best friend, who I've been friends with for five years. Today I was talking with her on the internet and I could tell that she was distracted by the phone, so I said "I gotta go" and surprisingly at first shes like "ok," then I said "ok" and then like two minutes later she says,"why?" and all I said was "because I can tell you're distracted by the phone, just talk to me later", and then she got all mad at me saying," so you were leaving me for nothing!!,"...I don't think it's unreasonable to tell your friend to just talk to you when they're not distracted....so then she told me to hold on and then she came back....I started talking to her again, she gave me one response and then all of a sudden she just wasn't answering anymore. I know it was some kind of revenge because she was posting bulletins on myspace, and on one of them she was talking about how cool one of her other friends are. This was last night, I've been IMing her and she's not answering me. What should I do?

Answer 1

give her some time to stop acting so immature
then let her talk to you
if it was me i wouldn't talk to her until she talks to me
but that's cause im stubborn.

Answer 2

Ive had this problem before. I find it really rude when people are talking to you and then start talking to someone else. You were perfectly justified to ask to talk to her later. Just leave it a while, until she finds some time in her busy social life for her real friends. She probably didnt mean to be so rude, she was probably just being thoughtless and didnt realise.
Hope it works out. If not then she obviously wasnt a good enough friend to you xxx

Answer 3

Maybe just back off a bit...the more you keep trying to talk to her the more you feed the fire for you to be like "gosh she won't leave me alone!". If you stop talking to her it might catch her attention a bit. You guys have been friends for 5 years...that's a long time so def try to keep the friendship alive but maybe just give your friend some space (which I know you tried to do by saying you'll talk to her later) and maybe keep yourself preoccupied w/something else like she is with her other friends and myspace comments.

Answer 4

You've given your friend her space since you've said that you will talk to her later. Continue to do that. She doesn't sound like a mature person to me ( I'm not trying to be rude or anything since I don't know her). Give her some time to talk to her other friends on myspace and let her talk to you, not you trying to talk to her. You guys have been friends for a very long time so don't let this petty situation get between you two. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.

Answer 5

Let her cool down 1st, & then try again. Sometimes when people read messages, they substitute their own emotions into the words in the absence of hearing it from your own voice.
She may have misinterpreted your intentions by placing an angry emotion on your words "I gotta go", when you only meant to say something like "I'll get back to you when you aren't so busy".
I don't chat on-line myself, & that is one of my many reasons for not doing it. I find that communicating by internet filters out much of the personal contact that we need to effectively communicate such as vocal inflections, facial expressions & eye contact.
Now she's probably not going to want to admit that she might have made a mistake when she got all bent out of shape.
Try speaking to her in person.

Answer 6

Sounds like a bit of a drama queen. Just do your thing and do as you would do normally. Nothing to worry or stress about here.

Answer 7

i have a friend that does that what i did was stopped calling and pming her gave her herspace to hang out with her other friends and we have been friends all our lives so just dont talk too her for a few days till she calls you and if she asks tell her why you did it

Answer 8

stop trying she is being immature. She wants everyone to be al over her. Find a mature best friend.

Answer 9

ignore her and chat with someone else

Answer 10

sit n IM her