at first i thought it was cool, but what he does is either pick up his galpals or have them meet us at the club. He uses me, to make my sister think hes not doing anything.
My sister suspects hes cheating, and he is. I haven't told her what he does but Im feeling guilty. what should i do?
2006-10-16 03:35:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
F*CKING HELL i can't believe you are hiding that from your SISTER........................ tell her straight away you could ruin your whole relationship with your sister if she finds out you know this is happening!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck and just be honest!!! xx
2006-10-16 04:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a bit of a predicament, but that guy is a loser, hes not just a rat for cheating on your sister but hes also using you. I think he needs to be given the chance to stop(highly unlikely) or come clean with your sister, or if not then she needs to be told. This guy probably wont be in her life for ever but you will all ways be her brother. As a female i would really appreciate my brother doing that for me. No one likes to be used or made a fool of like that. I feel for you it wont be easy, but i reckon you will feel so much better yourself.
2006-10-16 03:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by s.a.f. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad enough that he is cheating on your sister, but only a complete proncer would use her brother as cover. If it was a one-off, it might be forgettable. But if he is doing this regularly, your sister shouldn't be with him. You have to tell her. I know it will be painful for everyone, but she deserves to know. Imagine how bad it will be if she finds out that you knew and that you did nothing about it. Be brave, be honest, do the right thing. You might find it hard to forgive yourself if you don't.
2006-10-16 03:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he invites you out, go... if he does anything which is wrong, kick him so hard in the bollox he won't want to see anyone but his wife for sympathy and then tell your sister, she has a right to know and you should tell her if you love her. You are lucky if she loves you, my sister hasn't spoken to me in almost 9 years because she fell out with my mother and I continued to talk to my mother.... oops sorry for going on.... that's a totally different thread!
2006-10-16 03:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of your business what your brother in law does so I would not say anything to your sister. It will only hurt and upset her and they may be a good reason why he behaves they way he does.
If you feel you should do something, suggest to your brother in law that do you do think his behaviour is acceptable. That will let him know you are suspicious of him.
Good luck
2006-10-16 03:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate but you need to tell her. If she later finds out that you knew she would never forgive you. Besides is this the type of guy you want your sister to be with?
2006-10-16 03:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think he's an a**hole and that if he doesn't stop using you as an alibi that you'll spill the beans to your sister.
Stop going out with him anyway - that will give your sister a clue as to what he's up to
2006-10-16 03:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your sister dude, but dont be a grass, be a man and tell him to stop it or you will take him to the fooking cleaners.
Or are you a pussey that lets people walk all over him??
2006-10-16 03:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by druboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going out with him and have a good old man to man with him. If it persists take action
2006-10-16 03:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by madnesscon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her if she finds out you no it will most likely hurt her more than that cheating rat she is with dont let her be made a fool of
2006-10-16 04:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋