i dont know what to do with my life anymore...im sick of acting like everything is ok when in reality everything is going absoulutely wrong...ive tried to get my life back in order but everytime i do...something happens again. i dont know what to do anymore...please help me...
2006-10-16 01:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by dancinXonXtheXrooftops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey honey, I really hope that everything that is going wrong in your life clears up. we both know that it is easier said then done. Remember that time heals all. Keep your head high and faith in God
2006-10-16 01:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by hardcore_carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, u know what? There's a solution 2 everything in this world. But first, I think it'll b better if u try to get ur life back in order. If before u didn't suceed, mayb it's bcoz u don't have enough confidence in ur self. Tell u what, try finding solutions to ur problem one by one so that u won't get to depresed. And remember, never give up trying and always believe in ur self!
n by the way, something u can do that is guarenteed 2 suceed is to put everything in God. Start by praying n reading the Bible. Something u must know is that all of the things that happen in this life is just a part of a big test. After the test, there's only 2 things n that is Heaven n Hell. When u put ur trust to God, U will go to Heaven where there is only happiness in this world!!!
2006-10-16 09:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone. Talking will allow you to get all of these frustrations off of your chest. Connect with friends, tell them what is going on. It'll help knowing you have people that are there for you. I've been through the same thing, where everything seems pretty meaningful. Don't give up or lose hope. Remember to smile; find things you like to do, go out with your friends and family. Whatever you do, don't lock yourself in your room only making things worse as your mind wonders.
2006-10-16 08:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life wouldn't be interesting if every thing went the way you wanted it to. And no body says that you have to pretend that every thing is OK. Scream, shout, cry or have a temper tantrum if it makes you feel better. Every day when you wake up just remember that there are going to be challenges standing in your way whether you like it or not. Life never gets easier. You are just suppose to get a little wiser. And I have my days to when I
can't handle all the disappointments in my life. But hey 2morrow is another day & Rome wasn't buildt in a day.
So cheer up & Good luck.
2006-10-16 10:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I really don't know what to say that would actually help your situation, to be honest with you.
But everytime you're feeling down think of all these people here that encouraged you and cared about you even if they didn't know you personally.
I can't say that everything will be okay. I would be lying if I say I understand the place you're in. But I would like to say, keep on trying. At the risk of stating the obvious, you wouldn't have asked if you weren't trying. So keep your chin up, and trudge along soldier. Carry on.
2006-10-16 09:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were'nt descriptive enough but this always helps me when I am sad =(
1.Go get one item from every fast food place in town
2.Buy yourself a crown!! =) ((I’m wearing one right now))
3.Invite your very best friend and go to the nearest BEACH ((I don’t care if you live in the middle of NOWHERE. Just go!!
4.When your on your trip make a list of everything that has gone wrong
5.Then make solution
6.BURN THE PAPER!! None of that OLD stuff matters. It’s a new day and you deserve to be treated like a queen.
7.DON’T DO ANYTHING WITH RESPONSIBILITY!!!
PS- I hope you have a better day. You need to surround yourself with the people who love you and make you feel all nice and fuzzy inside. Have a great day =)
2006-10-16 09:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen and it's part of life!
it' is like a test! are you strong enough?
This site that i'm about to give youhelped me when i felt llike you did!
Coping.org
some times old habits are hard to shake but stick with it your habits are what your innner brain thinks "if i don't do this i will die" you and your outer brain must tell it is okay!
and it don't happen over night!
it will get better if your positive it won't get better if you think it won't
just like the guy playing golf!
He steps up to the ballarea as you step up to life!
He looks at the playing area and sees a pond! You see a challange
if he thinks to him self! don't hit the ball in the pond and yout hink avoid this challenge
what do you thinks going to happen the ball will be in the pond and you will be at that challenge!
but if the guy says i'm going to hit this ball on the green area by the flag and your outlook is
I am a happy person
what do you think will happen!
over time you will see that you will be happy and this golfer will make it to the green!
practice nothing has instent gradifacation!
Mad luv
2006-10-16 08:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you take one day & one problem at a time. Then you focus on the good things in your life & build yourself back up from there.Being with people you love & love you back is always a good thing to have also. Me myself when I feel down like that I do alot of praying to God cause he will never let you down like people do.
2006-10-16 08:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u and me both
but sometimes u gotta jus blend
jus go with life
take things as they come at u
there is nothing really to do but jus roll with the punches
best of luck to u
2006-10-16 08:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by WHS08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to sit down and talk with a counselor?
2006-10-16 08:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋