wat sort of ques. do indian men ask when they go to meet a girl 4 marriage & what should i ask him to have a gr8 impression in the first meeting?
2006-10-16 00:58:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Name and address.
Name and Date of Birth of Spouse.
When and where did you meet your spouse?
Describe this 1st meeting.
Did you make arrangements to meet again?
Did you exchange phone numbers?
When did you meet next?
Where were you living at the time? Where was your spouse living?
When did you decide to get married? Where were you at the time?
Did you live together before marriage?
When and where did you get married? How did you and your spouse get to the church, courthouse, etc.?
Who were the witnesses to the ceremony?
Did you exchange wedding rings?
Where had you purchased these rings? Did you and your spouse purchase them together?
Did you have a reception after the ceremony?
Where was it held?
Do you have any photos of the ceremony and /or reception?
Describe the reception.
Did any of your, and your spouse’s, family members attend? If so, who?
Did you go on a honeymoon? If so, when and where?
If you did not have a reception, what did you do after the wedding ceremony?
Where did you live after the wedding?
Describe the place where you lived right after the marriage. Number of bedrooms and bathrooms; furnishings; color of walls, floor coverings, appliances, etc; type of air conditioning, heating, etc; # of telephones, televisions, etc. Do you have cable television?
Where did you get the furniture? Was it already there, did you buy it, was it a gift, or did it come from your, or your spouse’s, previous residence?
If brought to the house or apartment, describe how it was transported.
Describe your bedroom. Where do you keep your clothes? Where does your spouse keep his or her clothes? Where are the bathroom towels kept? Where do you keep the dirty clothes?
Where is the garbage kept in the kitchen?
On what day of the week is the garbage picked up?
Where do you shop for groceries? Do you go together with your spouse? How do you get there?
Where do you work? What days of the week do you work?
What hours do you work? What is your salary?
What is your telephone # at work?
When was the last vacation you had from work?
Did you and your spouse go anywhere together at that time?
When was the last vacation you and your spouse took together?
Where did you go? How did you get there? Describe it.
Where does your spouse work? What days of the week? What hours? What is the salary, if you know?
What is your spouse’s telephone # at work?
When was the last time your spouse got a vacation from work?
Do you or your wife have any scars or tattoos? If so, where on the body?
Do you know your spouse’s family members? If so, which ones? If your spouse has children from a previous marriage, their names, ages, where they live, and where they go to school, if applicable.
Where do you live now? (If different from where you lived right after the marriage, then go over the same questions as above). How much is the rent? When is it paid? How do you pay it?
Do you have a bank account together? Where? What kind of account? (Checking, savings).
Are both of you listed on the account? (Do you have a bank letter, cancelled checks, etc.?)
Did you file a joint tax return this year? Do you have a copy with you?
Do you own any property together? What property? Did you bring copies of the documents with you?
What kind of automobile do you and your spouse have? Describe them.
Do you have an insurance policy listing your spouse as the beneficiary? If so, do you have a copy?
Have you taken any trips or vacations together? Do you have photos from these trips?
Do you have any utility bills, or receipts from items you have purchased together?
What other documentation do you have to show that you are living together as husband and wife?
Do you have any pets? What kind, what are their names, and describe them?
What did you do for Christmas, New Year’s, your anniversary, or you or your spouse’s last birthday? Did you exchange gifts? If so, what kind of gift?
Did you or your spouse go to work yesterday? If so, at what time did you and/or your spouse leave the house and return?
Who cooks the meals at the house?
What is your spouse’s favorite food? What is your favorite food?
Does your spouse drink coffee? If so, does he or she use cream and/or sugar?
Did you eat dinner together last night? Did anyone else have dinner with you? What did you have?
What time was dinner served? Who cooked it?
Did you watch TV after dinner? What shows did you watch?
At what time did you go to bed? Who went to bed first?
Did you have the air conditioning or heater on?
Who woke up first this morning? Did an alarm clock go off?
Did you or your spouse take a shower?
Did you come to the interview together? Who drove?
Did you have breakfast? Where and what did you eat?
Please remember that the number and types of questions that can be asked is almost limitless. Therefore, you and your spouse should review your entire lives together prior to attending the immigration interview. Even married couples living together for many years sometimes have difficulties remembering all of the facts of their relationship. Be prepared and take original documents with you. Then you will have no problem passing the interview and obtaining permanent residence in the United States.
2006-10-17 06:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say majority of college guys are after sex. It's probably not as bad as you've heard though depending on what school you're going to. You can usually spot the only after sex guys pretty quick. I know there are some who will wait around until you're ready to have sex. I'm a 22 year old college student and the guys who I deal with are still waiting. There are always a few good men around.
2016-03-28 11:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself as your parents and try to imagine back in time what issues they may have had and what type of relationship you are looking for:
Do you mind having a dependant partner who relies on you to organize everything or wants to spend all their social time with you. In this case you must have common social interests and you may need to make allowance for much more planning.
Or would you like him/her to be able to have their own life separate from you, as you will be busy and reserve only some time to do activities together, in that case she needs to show she can be self sufficient.
If you intend raising children then you must see if you agree on how they are brought up. Religion, disclipline, academic ambitions, sharing of responsibilities are best if they are matched between the partners.
In running your household it is nice for a couple where the strengths and weaknesses of each other are balanced. One may be better at numbers and so will handle paying bills, the other may enjoy cooking.
2006-10-16 01:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could ask about your likes / dislikes regarding issues he likes eg movies/ food/ hobbies/ music / what do u like to do in your free time...etc.
You could also ask the same to begin with. Then dont just restrict yourself to a fixed questionnaire. For as you talk you shall find common ground to talk about.
The most important QS you should ask yourself - do u want to spend the rest of your life with him?
2006-10-16 01:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never understood arranged marriages, you have to have sex with a man you dont even know, and what if he's abusive? I would be a disgrace to my family if i were Indian. But good luck anyway.
2006-10-16 01:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the big difference between indian men and thier feelings about anything , compared to a white man or black , mexican ect....
2006-10-16 01:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him "how many times a day do you plan on beating your wife" "What kind of foods would you like to have waiting after you get back from work?" "How hard can you hit?"
2006-10-16 01:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask if he want's to share his squishy machine for life
2006-10-16 01:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love first
2006-10-16 01:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE HIM TO A RESTURANT,SEE HIS BEHAVIOUR CALLING THE SERVER, IF HE IS RUDE REJECT HIM
2006-10-16 02:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋