2006-10-16 00:26:20 · 11 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
The best way is to stay away for at least one year to let them get the divorce over and get the head on right.
2006-10-16 00:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the relationship until the divorce is over. It's the best way. When you're ready for a committed relationship, only date those who are at least free to pursue one too.
If you're determined to continue it, keep your own life going while you give the person the same support you'd give a friend going through the same thing, and don't anticipate that they're going to be ready to get serious with you once their divorce is final--even if they want very much to get serious with you now. It does happen that people stay with/marry the person that they were in a relationship with during the divorce, but it's much, much less frequent than anyone thinks. Mostly once the ink is dry, the HEALTHY (and this is important) people need some space to regroup themselves. This means no relationship, or casual dating.
2006-10-16 00:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through a divorce means the person is married. Do you think its wise to have relations with a married person. Would you want your married partner to have relations with another. Relationships, all relationships are based on Honesty and Respect, if one is missing or abused, the other crumbles.
Now move forward, after the person gets a divorce, well I am not certain I could feel comfortable with one that decieved a present mate. And I would not be a factor in the deception bec uase I dont make advances or follow through on advances made by married peoples, without the knowledge of both parties. Even then, I dont.
People that stand up in front of others and make promises and take vows to be honest and loyal to one another, thats a marrige. As long as those 2 are alive they are married. If and when they get a divorce, in an open setting and in front of others, then they are no longer married. Theres not alot of grey area there. In fact, there is none.
Wanna play house, get a partner that is not promised or has standing promises of love and devotion to another.
Thats an easy way to get heartbroken or shot.
2006-10-16 00:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship with someone going through a divorce can be very stressful. Depending on how they have been seperated, you may be worried that they will get back together. Also divorce can get very nasty and the person you are with may not be themselves sometimes. Take things one day at a time.
2006-10-16 05:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by jasmine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend but hold back on anything else. That way, if the divorce goes through, you have built a good solid friendship and if you both feel love, you can move on to a more intimate relationship happy in the knowledge that you have something really strong.
Good luck x
2006-10-16 05:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by karen s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I started to see a fella who was separated from his wife and divorce proceeding had started. I realized almost immediately that his marriage should be given another chance as he was still in love with his wife. I ended up getting them back together !
Make sure the Divorce is what he wants ,talk to him about her and his feelings.Tell him you want to make sure his relationship with his wife is over but if he has children remember to say that it is important for him to keep "lines of communication" open for the kid`s sake.Good Luck anyway !
2006-10-16 01:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to not get involved with divorce dont make yourself a part of it or it will come back and hit you in the face.
2006-10-16 01:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Paul C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the divorce is over
2006-10-16 00:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Very slowly. Depending on the circumstance of the divorce. Plus, keep away from the ex as you may get dragged in.
2006-10-16 00:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by tradcobdriver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is 'don't go near anyone going through a divorce with anyone else's bargepole, let alone your own'. Sad, but usually the best advice.
2006-10-19 21:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋