I even asked the her boyfriend to talk to her for me but she told him that she doesnt want to talk to me. But i still lilke her so i didnt want to break the friendship. should i give up?
2006-10-15 23:57:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you spoke to her by text talk then you would have a difficult time.
Try writing a letter to her in your own writing and in real English with correct spelling. She will be very curious to see who it is from and she will read it for sure.
Be sincere in what you write, stick to the point and end it by suggesting that you meet on some neutral ground and start all over. If this does not work move on as she has a bigger problem with you than there is on the surface.
2006-10-16 00:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not convert. That would be the biggest hypocrisy. You would not be doing her nor her religion justice. I have the feeling that her parents might be pressuring her? Could this be? This is a test for your love. If she loves you enough, then she will be unable to leave you. If she however doesn't really believe in love in general (and that it can last) then she will withdraw. But there really is no question that you cannot convert to a religion that you don't believe in. I believe that the only way to make your marriage work, is to place religious beliefs aside. I am also the result of a so-called "mixed marriage" and my parents both left their faiths. I am fine and I truly believe that being so gives me more of a loving view of all people, because I can see both sides without prejudice. I believe that one day, there must be a world in which such man-made barriers as religion and skin color will have to be set aside. This can only happen when both sides, not one, give up their hold on their own personal realities....
2016-03-28 11:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said bad things about your cousin and your cousin doesn't want to talk to you. Why it should matter or make a difference that the bad things you said were true doesn't make sense to us strangers on-line.
Be a grown-up and cut the games. If you don't like your cousin, then don't try to be her friend. Stay away from the boyfriend.
You messed things up permanently. Kiss this relationship goodbye. You are simply relatives to each other, not friends.
And again, grow up. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. Just my two cents.
2006-10-16 00:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did u say 2 her until she become that mad? Anyway, usualy girls it when people tells the truth (by that I didn't mean negative truths), so mayb u could tell her that u're sorry n that u want 2 b friends with her again-4 best results I think it'll b better if u write it on a letter... If it still didn't work, than try giving her fav. flower.
2006-10-16 00:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made your bed now you have to lie in it. If she's really your friend why were you saying bad things about her? Who cares if they're true or not? You don't treat family/friends like that. If she had done this to you would you want to speak to her? I'm guessing not. You need to back off and give her some time to cool down. When/if she wants to speak to you again she will come to you. Let this be a lesson to you..treat people as you would want to be treated.
2006-10-16 00:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter saying how sorry you are say how you feel or even better talk to her in person explain to her everything and everything should be ok,because at the moment she propbely feels realy hurt and she probely never expected all the hurtful things that may have been true but was never meant to leave your head to come from you
2006-10-16 00:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by LiL_mZ_Sa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing a letter to your cousin. i find that it's easier to write stuff down - it gives u chance to really say what u want, without forgetting stuff, or being interrupted. after that, i would leave it down to your cousin to get in touch... it might not be for a while, but time really is a great healer in situations like this
2006-10-16 00:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient time is a good healer under the right circumstances, just don't give up hope, and continue to be as nice to her as possible!
2006-10-16 00:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know alot of people online cant understand ur language
2006-10-16 00:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to "give" up, you need to "grow" up
how old are you? 10?11?12?
2006-10-16 00:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋