hi been with my bf for 3 years we have just split up im so upset but he doesnt seem bothered it was always me ringing him up to see if he wanted to be still with me he doesnt even seem bothered i feel so hurt
2006-10-15 23:56:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One door closes and another one opens.
Find another man. It is the best cure
2006-10-19 12:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year ago I split with my ex after three years. He loved me but found it hard to grow up. It was hard to get over him but time is a healer. Spend time out and about with family and freinds. Keep yourself busy, this will stop you sitting at home crying him a river. Don't be ashamed to cry over the good times you once shared but also look on the bright side and think you could have wasted another year with that loser. the right person for you will come along eventually-right now focus on you and enjoying life.
2006-10-16 07:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is upset, but men have that thing were they can't show emotion because it's a sign of weakness apparently! just forget about him and get on with your life, i know it's hard but your gonna have to pretend as if you're not bothered either!!
Do really well in life and get a makeover or something so his friends say "wow, can't believe you let such a great girl go!!" instead of "you're better off without her mate!!!" remember it will get easier, and keep smiling!!!
2006-10-16 12:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by sausagejockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was an easy way, someone would have bottled it and flogged it on e-bay, for sure....................Time truly is the only way......I fell in love with a girl, madly and deeply in love. I'd have done anything for her. We'd been together for many years.Then, one day I got home from work and she'd gone. Taken all her stuff and gone......no note or explanation.........a week later I found out she was with someone else............and three weeks later found out she was pregnant by him.................I was devastated......life didn't matter any more. I thought my whole life was pointless......but ever so slowly, the days did get better and I knew I had to be more positive................that was many years ago now and it still hurts.........but time has allowed me to store the hurt deep in my memory and I get on with life..............If she didn't want to be with me...it was her loss as well as mine.........be brave, be strong
2006-10-16 13:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time, friends, more time. But the quicker you let him go the better. Stop the calls, stop the texts now. Harsh as it sounds accept it is over, you are making it harder for yourself staying in touch, have some pride and let him go. I know it is difficult I really do but trust me calling him is not the way forward. All the best honey be strong xxx
2006-10-16 07:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he had made his mind up long before the break-up. And do you really wnt to be with someone like that ? Get on with your life, time heals, get yourself back on the circuit and enjoy your freedom, you never know you might even love it! Good luck
2006-10-16 07:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey get over him.I mean if he does'nt give a rat's as s about u then u shud'nt care either!i mean why bother about people who don't think ur special and don't really care about u.U are just giving him way too much importance n then he'll go over to one of his pals and brag about "THE CHICK WHO ISN'T OVER ME".
2006-10-16 07:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by sheen_rora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your break up!
take some time out to re discover your self.
spend time with your mates..go out ..have fun...but leave relationships alone for a while.
time is a great healer and in time you will forgive him and forget about him..and move on to find someone that deserves you!
best of luck babe.
2006-10-16 07:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over that hurt and find someone else. After awhile you'll do good to even remember the ex's name.
2006-10-16 07:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it depends on what caused the break-up. However, the real true answer is .....Time heals all wounds.
2006-10-16 07:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by barb b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋