I have a big problem with my bestfriend ..
My bestfriend personality change now ... now he is so naughty, dont like to read book, now ( exam ) and when rest time he not reading book .. but play with other .. im so mad .. and i dont know what to do ...
Please give me some advice
2006-10-15 23:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As a good friend, ask him whats wrong and try to help him out or give him some advice to study.
2006-10-16 02:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kiyura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend likes U so much. Use it as a tool to lure him to your side. What I mean is that if your best friend is not reading any book or does not do what U him to do, very simple way is to isolate him temporarily. This is to indicate to him that U do not like what he is doing. As such, he will change when he knows that U does not like what he had done. Give a try.
2006-10-16 10:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey y u want read the books all the time, but yes u hve a exams so u should read books. dont tell him nething when he fails in exam he will come to u for ur help that time u scold him nicely. dont panic or take tention just carry on with ur studies.
2006-10-16 06:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by heart k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you'd better improve your language there.
As for your best friend warn him about the consequences that he's gonna face, if he continues slacking. Or maybe your other friends can team up with you and help him het more serious.
If it doesnt work go find a new friend or just mind your own business.
Hope that helps!!
2006-10-16 07:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tushi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when you see your friends screwing up. But it's ultimately his decision. If and when he realizes the error of his ways just be there for him. If he doesn't change there isn't much you can do. We all have to take responsibility for our own mistakes. The best thing you can do is live by example. If you nag him he will just pull away more.Continue with your studies but always be willing to be there for a friend if they reach out to you.
2006-10-16 07:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Stand 4 somthing Please! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sudden change in personality can be many things, problems at home, drugs.....
Ask her whats going on, if she is not ready to talk let her know that you'll be there for her when she is ready....
If you think she is putting herself in any kind of danger, tell someone, get help for her.......
2006-10-16 07:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say u concentrate in ur studies well or juz have a simple talk wid ur best frnd,ask him wat makes him not 2 study, y he is gettin careless,if he dont listens then leave him on his decision... itz difficult that u leave to worry abt him but u hv to do that way,after exams finishes off then talk to him.
2006-10-16 08:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure that your friend?
your question sound like that you don't read books.
if he does not whats your problem.
you are not good friend
backbiting against your friend
bad
your friend has no problem
you have a mental problem
you said to leave your friend
but friend did not say to leave you
so this shows you are bad , not he
2006-10-16 07:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by schneidernn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really my friend was ike that
does he have any effect on him?
i mean
my friend saw me going ahead of her and try joining me thast y she is no more like a spolied brat now!
2006-10-16 07:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask to him what happen. May be he just tired with his own life and try to do something new
2006-10-16 07:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lidwina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋