Ok...i need to know does this happend to alot of people?....
There is this guy that i had a huge huge crush on for the longest....and we have been messin around for bout 8 months now....and me and him are not girlfriend and boyfriend.....but i got a boyfriend now we been toghter for 3 months now....and when i ask the guy to come over and hang out with me and he cant make it i get really upset and shad a few tears.....but when my boyfriend is supose to come over i dont cry i dont even get upset....i get mad just a little bit...but what im tryin to say is why am i crying over my crush but not my boyfriend???....and the sex with my crush was ok but with my boyfriend is way better....soo i dont know why im feeling this way....does anyone have a clue why????? Help me pls
2006-10-15 23:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by ~Nyla~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because we always want what we cannot have, and you are trying to control the both of them, you are playing a cruel game to your boyfriend and should feel ashammed, if he does not know about your crush he will find out and leave you then you will be out twice, pick one or the other
2006-10-15 23:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty easy as I see it, you like to conquer things and your not happy when the chase is over. Did you feel the same rush when you and your boyfriend were just flirting maybe? Or have you ever felt the same little rush when persuing something new something you dont have yet or just something that you can borrow and not own....like this guy and the situation....surely when you become the owner of this new real estate youll get bored of it and go elsewhere I know your type the grass is greener on the other side...It has to be right....WRONG.....L
2006-10-15 23:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about moving on. Crushs are much harder to get over because it's more mental than anything else, and of course it's lasts longer than a usual relationship. If you really cared about your actual boyfriend, your crush FROM YOUR PAST wouldn't matter much with your future. It's a slap in your boyfriend face to invite your crush (whom you've have an intimate connection with) over to your home. Obviously your crush has severed his ties to your once intimate bliss, now it's your turn. If not, your only going to sabotage all of your future relationships with the other men in your life.
2006-10-15 23:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex has nothing to do with love. So the fact that sex with one was better then with the other means nothing. You obviously love your crush and your boyfriend is just a fill in. You don't really love him, your using him as a fill in until you get what you really want..... Your crush
2006-10-15 23:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there were anything more with the crush then you two would be together instead of just something on the side. Don't be surprise if your boyfriend knows about your side action.
2006-10-15 23:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one is bread,the other is butter.you tryin to mix em huh?make up your mind who you are really in love with.sex isnt everthing you know? connection is.
2006-10-15 23:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you messed up? Have you learnt your lesson yet?
2006-10-15 23:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-15 23:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by sonruyaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c u r acting like a slu* ?
2006-10-16 01:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by georgia p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont
2006-10-15 23:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by im nude how about you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋