how do i learn to let go of it & be single & happy
but do you think that's really possible for someone who loves romance
you can take part in activities, hobbies you enjoy and keep yourself super busy but we all know nothing equals to a love experience (and this has nothing to do with not loving yourself, it's just a completely different sensation)
thanks
2006-10-15 23:07:09 · 10 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
it can be because of how "others" see your attitude towards things....and what they think of you as you react on certain situations
hence,you might have problems on your attitude...
2006-10-15 23:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by ace m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be a single? I understand you that you want to be happy, that's natural. But being a single is not an achievement, think of it as a between-loves state. But you must find your answers to a couple of very important questions, and 'Answers' won't be able to help you much. First: What are the most important values in your life (e.g. is being in love more important to you than being happy? Sometimes they are not the same. Or which is more important to you in a relationship: giving or getting? etc., etc.) What are the characterisics that you want/expect your partner to have. Then: Do you have these characteristics? E.g. if you want your love to be reliable you must ask yourself whether you are reliable or not. Then try to be the best person you can in order the "ideal one" can find and notice you. While you work on it you become more relaxed about it, because you'll see that becoming a better person is slightly more important than having another partner, and your mind's channels will open to the solution, and he or she will start coming towards you. Then just let it happen.
That's what I did 11 ys ago when my ex left me with two little daughters, and in 9 days it's the 8th anniversary with my new husband.
So it's not luck what you need, but get down to work AND good luck.
2006-10-16 06:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Agnes K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love IS nice.
But Luck has nothing to do with it.
You sort of answered your first question in your second part. You do have to learn to let go and be happy single, in order to have any 'luck' with love.
You should never need love, want it yes but never need. Love is given not taken, you can't force someone to love you. You shouldn't have to.
You truly can be happy and single. Enjoy your freedom, explore opportunities for yourself, and keep all options open.
First thing you have to learn is: You can be romantic and single and happy all on the same day!
Just make sure that you are not blinded by romance, that you are overlooking love. (can't see the forest for the trees sort of thing).
2006-10-18 14:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, I see 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must learn to enjoy your own company. Many women and men are quite content being single, until the right one comes along. True it is a wonderful thing being in love, however, not if you are the only one in love in the relationship. And one keeps choosing the wrong mate. I say wait on he Lord, and be patient, he will eventually send you the one for you. good luck and God bless
2006-10-16 06:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found that once you just go out and enjoy yourself and dont go looking for love, it eventually finds you! You can find the wrong people by searching for them, so just chill out and have fun and you'll see! Good luck!
2006-10-16 06:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can probably live like a saint or something.... do charitable acts and help the poor... Your mind will be so busy and preoccupied with being fulfilled in helping people that you'll probably get high with it haha
2006-10-16 06:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by SID 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, this is very difficult question for me.
I usually confuse like that problem :(
good luck
2006-10-16 06:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by PhotoARTist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont have luck in love because u are always expecting more
2006-10-16 06:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by amy a' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i ll pray 4 u and wish u good ones!
2006-10-16 06:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Law of probability will now work in your favor.
read- http://www.lovedatingguide.com/
2006-10-16 06:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋