my twin sister has no friends all the girls have stoped speaking to her for the simple reason, she iles can't trust her and she would stab you in the bck very handy. i have tried speaking to her but she doesnt listen. we both are 20 yrs of age, she fell preg at the tender age of 15 my mum rared her son more or less, both my parents hang on every word she says, why cant they see what she is lik. i hear what people say abt her around town. she is very fond of the men and i think she has no real respect for herself, if i try syaing anything my parents fall out wi me, i went off with the girls at the wekd and she caused a hanlin at home(cos none of them speak to her, i cant seem to get her ta c why, she lies to us all, what can i do to get her to change, any advice is great, i just wish i lived out of home.
2006-10-15 22:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by comeo!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let your sister be. if she is doing something destructive to herself, then talk to her ~ if you, yourself, sincerely want to help.
2006-10-15 22:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should show her an example of success and happiness. What I mean is that her life has been very dramatic. When people are experiencing difficulty it is easy to draw negative emotions from both themselves and the people around them. I am not looking for a Prozac moment but instead idea's for change. The persuasion can come from direct verbal cues or from knowing what she really likes and then talk about some new goals. We all have dreams that have been pushed aside. If anyone knows her good side it will be you. Good luck.....
2006-10-16 05:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by tadpoleslider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bee in your bonnet, meaning this girl is not going to change until she wants to, and your parents are just as bad, seeing her through rose colored glasses, it seems. Regardless, if they want to try to do anything, it is really impossible for you to do anything, as long as she has parent's backing up her bad behavior. Just try to get out of the house, if you can, find a room mate, get a job, or part time if you are a student. If you are 20 yrs old, you could possible swing it. Maybe your parents want to be her enabler, and want the child to live with them. All you can say is what you feel and take her out of the house if and when you talk to her. You have to start planning a way to get out of the house, and have your own life. Good luck. People have to want to help themselves or they just won't.
2006-10-16 05:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why would anyone want to be like that anyway. Start being that way towards her. See how she likes be even a little worse if you can. She will eventually see that being the way she is is not best for her or anyone. She will come around. You just have to give her the same treatment in return. It always worked for me. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-16 05:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a psychiatrist can probably help.
2006-10-16 05:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant
2006-10-16 05:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋