i have known her for almost three mounths now and i asked her out but im scared to know whut she is going to say she the sweetest girl ever i think i love her but i dont know how she feels about me
2006-10-15 22:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by crm478 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The longer that you wait, the harder it will be. A common saying is "nice guys finish last". The thing is that most women always say that they prefer nice guys. Many women also comment how they end up with jerks. So the most logical conclusion is that women want men who are strong.
What does this have to do with you? Well, hesitation is a sign of weakness. It is for this reason that I have concluded that a man of action is one of the (if not the top) attractive trait to a woman.
I am appalled at most men's lack of logic in this subject. First of all, if the woman only wants one partner, then the only logical conclusion is that there can only be one winner at the time. So it is a COMPETITION. If you let others go first, then you risk losing.
LOL, and people wonder why nice guys finish last. Remember most women admit that they like nice guys, but the ones that willing to compete are the ones that win even if they are the "bad guys".
If you don't want her to end up with an "a" hole, then take your shot.
Believe me if she is not interested, then it will be worth bringing it up because it won't be eating you up inside. If you ask her and you lose her as a friend, then she was not worth being a friend or a girlfriend. If she just wants to be friends then you will know for sure how she feels about you, then you really arn't losing anything.
Logically you have almost nothing to lose, the benifits outweigh the risks.
Take a chance or let others have a chance at her.
Your choice, your decision.
2006-10-15 23:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by green_mason1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like u definately proceed love should not last in the heart for long but first try to understand first know about her did she have a boyfriend what kind of a girl she is , what feelings dose she have about u and her nature but just remember that by u she must not be hurted other wise u will lose even ur friendship. give her time to understand u , and after ways u just give a hint of u loving her and after wards see her reaction if its positive u can directly go and proceed otherwise remember that u can even lose ur friendship so good luck it mostly works
2006-10-16 05:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by dilip b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear is one thing u sohuldnt worry bout just go in and ask whats the worrst that could happen it will pass on you so just go for it
2006-10-16 05:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by DeadlyKarma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-16 05:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will soon find out if you have already done so.
2006-10-16 05:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know unless you do.
2006-10-16 05:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋