I know for a fact I love my ex Jason, we have a 3 year old together and have joint custody. I know hes not happy with his wife but he also has a baby with her. Everytime he threatens to leave her,she tells him that he wont be able to see his daughter. I have a really good job and could support both of them if needed. He doesnt wnat to lose his daughter and thats why he is still married. Everytime I drop our son off or pick our son up he always tells me he loves me and tries to kiss me before we leave. Our son is even telling me when I am with him that daddy still loves me. My ex best friend likes to rub in my face that they are married and she even told my cousin she doesnt really love him, shes only staying married to him so that I can't have him. I have confronted her about this and she tells me she loves him more than her kids. what should I do about the situation? My 3 year old son is even telling me his daddy loves me!
2006-10-15 22:19:54 · 11 answers · asked by ~MandiNic~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your ex and ex friend need to work out their situation on their own. No matter how much you want him and how much you dislike her, their maritial issues are really not any of your business.
I would leave the ex alone and get out and meet someone else.
2006-10-15 22:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all you all need to stop putting the kids in this because they are the ones that matter here right? Do you think a man that is married and tring to kiss you would be faithful to you? If so then why did y'all split up to start with? Cheating has nothing to do with loving or not loving someone. Cheating is someone with no selfconfidence trying to feel wanted. But to tell you the truth the real question you need to be asking here is how to handle this without involving there poor kids!
2006-10-15 22:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think about why you two are ex's.
right now its all clouded by the fact that you think he still loves you and your son is being told by him to tell you the same thing.
Get a grip, he is a cheater, he got with your best friend, (nice best friend, by the way, getting with your ex is so disrespectful) He is willing to cheat with her to be with you, I am betting the reason you left him was he got caught cheating, and here he is trying to do it again, If you take him back he will cheat on you, and when he goes back to see his child with your ' best friend' he will be telling her how he doesn't really love you, and always loved her, and is only staying with you for his sons sake, then he will be trying to kiss her and try to get a 'sympathy ' f --k from her.
You need to wake up sister... BIG TIME
2006-10-15 22:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should tell him if he is unhappy then divorce her. There is no LEGAL way she can not allow him to see the kid. But don't try to incourage it because YOU WANT HIM. He should do it only if hes unhappy. talk to him and have him maybe record what she says to use it against her. Showing the judge that if she is awarded full custody she will prevent him from seeing the baby.
2006-10-16 01:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, If I were you I would tell him to leave her, unless he has any reason why he wouldn't be able to see his daughter, then he needs to go. He's obviously not happy and that is not a way to live. If he has to go to court I don't see any reason why they would deny joint custody. This Bit$% is a disgrace and needs to be taken down, HARD!
2006-10-15 23:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and that is what you are telling yourself , huh? that she is only staying with him so you can't have him. if you got him back it would only be a matter of time before he did it again to you. think about what is good for you an your son. are these the values in life you want to teach him? teach him love an devotion ,dedication...ect. but not women jumping is ok?
2006-10-15 22:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person in a relationship almost always wants to have more sex than the other. The one that doesn't get it enough wants it more, and the one that gets it too much wants it less. And the longer the relationship goes on, the greater the desires of both.
2016-05-22 05:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she's still the legal wife. so unless they divorce, you can't do anything about it. they should deal with their situation on their own. as much as possible, don't involve yourself too much. it won't be good for you if you become involved in legal issues between them.
2006-10-15 22:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody has free will, if he chooses to be with you then he will be with you, sounds simple but it really is
as for his daughter, thats a legal issue so I won't comment on that part
best of luck to you
2006-10-15 22:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Full Circle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move out of the triangle. It's not a perfect shape anyway!
2006-10-15 22:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by chasing rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋